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sharp7 Posted at 10:24 am on July 4, 2009
If I like someone, I'll chase them for months, just leaving hints that I like them, but not actually saying it outfront. But always wondering if they like me back =/

I know that if I eventually tell them, they wont be interested, then I'll have to just get over them. But when You're just crushing on someone, erm... I don't know the word, just like you get infatuation.

Or if you tell them straight away and they are interested, I'll go out with them, but then get bored not long after, and finish it.

It's like I just like crushing on guys, but once I've got what I wanted, I don't want them anymore?

What do you think?  

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kaylar28 Posted at 9:26 pm on July 4, 2009
Either you dont know the person well enough to go into a relationship with them, or you just spend way to much time with them that bores you. Or you just have commitment issues.
LoveKay Posted at 12:12 pm on July 4, 2009
You just said that you like crushing on them but once its out in the open, they dont like you back so you have to move on. To me it sounds like you're just scared and want to stick to liking them in your head.
thatgirl9459 Posted at 10:43 am on July 4, 2009
I totally know how you feel...I flirt with guys I like constantly...and I can't say I've actually ever had a REAL boyfriend because the moment I start 'going out' with them I feel trapped and have my friends breakup with them for me... And the only time I've had a relationship go on for more than two days all I did was talk on the phone with him, since we went to different schools we never got to see eachother and that only lasted for about a week...I don't know, but I feel closer to my crushes when I'm just hanging out with them and don't have to put a label on our feelings for each other...
Miss Kaytee Posted at 10:41 am on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009

You're normal.

Aria of Silence Posted at 10:40 am on July 4, 2009
That happens a lot...we just build it up so much before hand that we're always underwhelmed. Don't worry, I matured out of it in my senior year, it'll pass.
Stars Fall For Us Posted at 10:38 am on July 4, 2009
I don't understand why some girls are like that >.< I'm not, I don't get how you can get 'bored' with them
mvmassacre Posted at 10:29 am on July 4, 2009
I used to be like that until I found the one guy that absolutely swept me off my feet.
jewishbear Posted at 10:28 am on July 4, 2009
YOU HAVE A BIG NOSE LOL
Brinkmannjg Posted at 10:26 am on July 4, 2009
Normal. I think this pretty much how most people act.
return2me Posted at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009
this always happens to me. :S

ive just had terrible luck, id like to think. so many girls have liked me back too late, or vise versa. its a pain.

Violently Happy Posted at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009
You're normal.
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