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Anonymous Posted at 3:38 pm on July 4, 2009
my gf says she needs space (we've broken up) but i dont know how to give her that and i dont know what she really wants becasue she is generally a person who always wants attention and ive been gatting INSANELY jelous because she has just been getting ALL her attention from her friends and certain guys that I feel completely insignificant and pitiful. I want to keep telling her I love her but at the same time i cant because Im afraid she will just get sick of it. How should I approach this? Any advise?

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kaylar28 Posted at 8:41 pm on July 4, 2009
She wants to see other people thats it. But she doesnt want to let you go because obviously she feels secure with you or shes used to you being around. Dont waste your time and just move on to someone who will care about you, cause your just going to get hurt if shes always saying"idk how i feel".
If you want to wait...give her a week or two tell her how you feel and if nothing improves then i wouldnt stick around
WickedWiccan Posted at 3:50 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 6:42 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from WickedWiccan at 3:40 pm on July 4, 2009

This is only my opinion, Okay? But after what I went through with my boyfriend I think she's getting ready to break up.

um what exactly do you mean? we've already broken up. She just isnt sure how she feels. And the rest of you please dont tell me to forget about her because its not happening. This girl is WAY too special to me. I LOVE her


I think she wants to take a break from seeing you. I think that's what "space" means. That's what it means to me. She wants to be able to do whatever she wants, go wherever she wants to go, and meet and hang out with anybody she wants to without you having a say or judging her about it. If you are insanely jealous it could be that she couldn't handle that anymore. I know you can't forget about her. I was the one who broke up with my boyfriend and I can't forget about HIM. If she misses you enough to want to see you again you will know. If she doesn't you will know too. But you shouldn't try to insist on seeing her. That would be stalking and kill whatever chance you might still have.
Anonymous Posted at 3:42 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from WickedWiccan at 3:40 pm on July 4, 2009

This is only my opinion, Okay? But after what I went through with my boyfriend I think she's getting ready to break up.

um what exactly do you mean? we've already broken up. She just isnt sure how she feels. And the rest of you please dont tell me to forget about her because its not happening. This girl is WAY too special to me. I LOVE her

WickedWiccan Posted at 3:40 pm on July 4, 2009
This is only my opinion, Okay? But after what I went through with my boyfriend I think she's getting ready to break up.
LiveForeverDieTonite Posted at 3:40 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from BrittBee at 6:39 pm on July 4, 2009

forget about her. easier said than done though, i know.

this.

BrittBee Posted at 3:39 pm on July 4, 2009
forget about her. easier said than done though, i know.
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