Our first was last night, when we went to the beach. Now today I'm going to meet him backstage at the event he's working at in the local community centre, then getting a lift to a BBQ a friend of his is having.
He says if we get bored at the BBQ we can go "back to his" to have more fun... I don't know if I'm ready to go all the way or not. Still, whatever happens, happens. And he is respectful, so won't pressure me into anything I don't want to do.