Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Guys/girls is it a turn off Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Aimforthehead[/m] at 10:37 am on July 6, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]joker678[/m] at 10:37 am on July 6, 2009[quote]no i think a guy needs to pay![/quote] Why?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Aimforthehead Posted at 10:36 am on July 6, 2009 Guys is it a turn off When a girl expects you to pay for dates and things like that? Girls is it a turn off when a guy doesn't offer to pay for a date and why? Personally if I were to date I'd want to pay just because I like buying things if I like someone. If she -expected- it though, I'd kind of lose interest right there.

Replies kaylar28 Posted at 9:55 pm on July 6, 2009 I dont expect a guy to pay for everything all the time. It makes me feel dependant on them and i hate that. My boyfriend and I usually pay half and half, or switch up who pays. Although i agree with what Lucid nightmare said, if a guy asks a girl on a date they should pay and vice versa. gore Posted at 7:21 pm on July 6, 2009 and how do you not have a gf? you're pretty sexy EliEe Posted at 7:20 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Cunning Stunt at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009 I pay if I have the money. It's kinda lame when she expects me to pay her way when I both a) seriously don't have the money and b) she has the money, but doesn't want to spend it because it's *my* responsibility. lol i don't cvare either way i to do free things anyhow gore Posted at 7:17 pm on July 6, 2009 i love it when a guy pays for me but i don't expect it Sudo XE Posted at 10:52 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from MandyMarie at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Sudo XE at 1:37 pm on July 6, 2009 no, I like paying for things    gives me a chance to show off showing off is a turn off not if you do it with style Reading Your Eyes Posted at 10:51 am on July 6, 2009 I think the person who asks should pay. If the guy asks, he pays. If the girl asks, she pays. Then you could just take turns after that or something. Joep0113 Posted at 10:50 am on July 6, 2009 No, it'd feel weird not paying for the dates actually.. RIMHfire Posted at 10:48 am on July 6, 2009 Unless the guy really insists, then I usually like to pay. But I think it's cute if a guy pays for me. GlassHearts Posted at 10:45 am on July 6, 2009 I feel bad when people pay for me when i go somewhere, so if they try it, i always end up sneaking money into their pocket or something when i hug them. thats if they dont just take the money ofc xD I dont think a guy should pay, i think it should be equal.I like to treat guys, i think it's only fair.     x Aimforthehead Posted at 10:45 am on July 6, 2009 And to be honest, I'm kind of annoyed by the girls who just say "Well it's really nice if the guy pays for it all"... =/ Well of course it's nice, you get to sit back do nothing and use people to get free things, how noble of you. Lightning Strikes Posted at 10:43 am on July 6, 2009 I wouldn't expect him to pay. I don't like people buying things for me, it makes me feel guilty because it's their money and should be used on themselves. If i had the money, I would pay for both, because even though I hate being bought things, I don't mind paying for stuff for other people. Aimforthehead Posted at 10:41 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from ifyoulikepinacoladas at 10:39 am on July 6, 2009 I'm a girl. If I have money, I'm more than happy to pay for the both of us. I think it should be this way! If both people are arguing to pay for it all, you know you have a good relationship. theycallherlove Posted at 10:41 am on July 6, 2009 it doesn't really matter to me : ) i'm cool with splitting the check, but it is nice for the guy to offer to pay from time to time. i wouldn't expect him to get the check everytime though RahRahReplica Posted at 10:40 am on July 6, 2009 I'd like him to pay but I don't expect. If he asks me to split it then I wouldn't mind. Pillowpants Posted at 10:40 am on July 6, 2009 its socially acceptable for the guy to. so if he demands not to, its him being thick skulled and an asshole. or at least revealing future problems of this. Most recent 15 of 29 previous replies displayed.