Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Sending a message to her to let her know i'm over her? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Brooktini[/m] at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009[quote]If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post AcidSilence Posted at 3:58 pm on July 6, 2009 Well, I finally gained alot of closure after telling the girl I liked for 3 years how I felt. She led me on a bit, and finally i'm over it. I feel like there is still a twinge in the pit of my stomach that aches desperately for her, just like before. I think that I can put it to rest if I send her a message telling her I'm finally over her. [I know her in real life, but Myspace is our main way of communication. And no, I can't do it in person.] For some reason, I still have a bit of doubt. Like maybe I don't want to get rid of it. But I know I need to. So should I do it?

Replies iluzy Posted at 12:14 pm on July 7, 2009 don't do it,that's for cowards,don't tell her this stuff now, invite her to a juice, a movie, anything, try to spend some time to her, don't rush the things out,you may lose her 4ever LoveKay Posted at 4:39 pm on July 6, 2009 If you tell her, then you will have to actually go through with getting over her and lose any future chance. ameri mexi Posted at 4:18 pm on July 6, 2009 if your over her.. dont tell her just hold that gut and move on.. Scoutindigo Posted at 4:12 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Brooktini at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it? I agree. Chiefette Posted at 4:09 pm on July 6, 2009 I think sending her a message would tell her that you are not over her: K r e s c e n d o Posted at 4:09 pm on July 6, 2009 If she lead you on, then I believe that you are doing the right thing. To get over someone is hard, and I have, and so have many others, been there and has stumbled across this question, puzzled and confused in thinking "am I doing the right thing?" I, personally, think you are doing a good thing. You need to move on, and if you don't want her anymore in your life (and I assume you don't), then go ahead and tell her that there is no more communication between you and her. That said, I would go as far as not INCLUDING Myspace as an only way to communicate, if what you are trying to achieve is life without her meddling in your path. It is this, I would tell her: "I'm over you now, and I think it is best that you and i should never talk".   Short, simple, and gets the point across. No point in being all "Oh hi, we cant talk anymore (long and drawn out, by that time you will probably contradict yourself a hundred times)". But then again, even posting it might lead her to think otherwise. Up to you. Post a message saying you dont want to ever communicate, or just ignore her completely. -R' JynxWhitefire Posted at 4:06 pm on July 6, 2009 I'd leave it be, if it were me. AcidSilence Posted at 4:04 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Skip at 5:02 pm on July 6, 2009 tell her you are not going to communicate anymore Yeah, thats basically the plan. To let her know I really don't want anything. At all. Skip Posted at 4:02 pm on July 6, 2009 tell her you are not going to communicate anymore AcidSilence Posted at 4:01 pm on July 6, 2009 Oh god. I'm starting to realize maybe i'm not... No. I am. ...Right?   Darby Posted at 4:01 pm on July 6, 2009 My ex called me after a couple years to tell me he was over me. I thought it was weird and semi-funny. Chasey Posted at 4:00 pm on July 6, 2009 sure, just dont be creepy richteabiscuits Posted at 4:00 pm on July 6, 2009 Go for it, even if you kinda regret it after, I'm sure it'll be for the best in the long run? sub800 Posted at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 don't it'll seem like you're NOT letting go, which you aren't. Brooktini Posted at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it? Most recent 15 of 16 previous replies displayed.