Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic should i remain being friends with her? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 7:27 pm on July 8, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]nzdude[/m] at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009[quote]dump her. she soooo desrves it[/quote] yeah well i know she's going through shit, and so am I. so maybe we were both not thinking straight. idk. maybe i should just only hang out with her just alone, instead of around her friends. idk i'll have to really think about this.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 7:17 pm on July 8, 2009 ok there is this girl i've been hanging out with for a months now. always alone, just me and her. we ended up being friends then i asked her to be my girlfriend, i said if you aren't feeling the same way we can just remain friends no big deal. she ignored me for a week. we chat over the internet one night because she is to uncomfortable to see me in person. we decide that we are still friends. next day, we decide to go take a 200 mile drive to watch a concert, with one of her friends so its just the 3 of us. i'm sitting in the truck, and they are ignoring me pretty much, i feel invisible. we get there and turns out they have no money to get tickets into the concert. i'm f'ing pissed. i don't feel like talking to neither of them. i'm forced to tag along as they talk with a bunch of metal heads and pot heads. i don't say a word, they continue to ignore me. the girl i was hanging with for a months (my friend) runs into a complete stranger around our age and they start flirting and eventually start holding hands, wrapping arms around each other, and at the end of the night they make out right in front of me. i'm devestated, shocked, pissed, confused, everything u can imagine. i drop to my knees and i feel like im about to murder somebody. the guy leaves and its just me and her, and eventually i ditch them and find a way back home by myself. Should I remain friends with this girl? We have amazing conversation when we are alone. But when she is with friends she practically neglects me and pretends i'm not even there. A few weeks ago this was the most amazing person I have ever met, last night she was the most disgusting, disrespectful person I have ever witnessed. I don't know what to do...

Replies stonedbirds Posted at 12:35 pm on July 10, 2009 DON'T. nik1 Posted at 2:03 am on July 9, 2009 You got used Dude! You will never trust her again.  She displayed to you exactly what she is made of and if you continue to hang around her she will do it again.  She was extremely disrespectful.  I wouldn't have anything to do with her.   Millerr Posted at 11:23 pm on July 8, 2009 he's making u jealous get her Dstarks Posted at 7:47 pm on July 8, 2009 shes a slut Anonymous Posted at 7:27 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from nzdude at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 dump her. she soooo desrves it yeah well i know she's going through shit, and so am I. so maybe we were both not thinking straight. idk. maybe i should just only hang out with her just alone, instead of around her friends. idk i'll have to really think about this. Amin mele lle Posted at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 I wouldn't. If she doesn't respect you enough to be honest in person, then it's a bad relationship.  Forget about her, and find some better friends. nzdude Posted at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 dump her. she soooo desrves it The Wolfhound Posted at 7:21 pm on July 8, 2009 Talk to her. If she can reasonably explain her behavior, stay. If not, tell her to find some real friends. Doesn't sound like a nice girl... DJProm3theus Posted at 7:20 pm on July 8, 2009 She's a cunt. Never talk to her again. All 9 previous replies displayed.