Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Will he continue to pay for me? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]AllyLee[/m] at 10:24 am on July 11, 2009[quote]Whenever we have been together he tries to pay for EVERYTHING and i finally said, "Look, i feel bad let me at least pay for the tickets, dinner, etc." But my question is...the amount of time that we last together...is he going to continue to keep paying for everything...(movie tickets, food, etc.) I mean he is only 15....he doesn't really have a job...and I feel like I'm taking money away from his parents....man. We are seeing a movie soon and I am going to try to pay...or should I just let him pay?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post AllyLee Posted at 10:24 am on July 11, 2009 Whenever we have been together he tries to pay for EVERYTHING and i finally said, "Look, i feel bad let me at least pay for the tickets, dinner, etc." But my question is...the amount of time that we last together...is he going to continue to keep paying for everything...(movie tickets, food, etc.) I mean he is only 15....he doesn't really have a job...and I feel like I'm taking money away from his parents....man. We are seeing a movie soon and I am going to try to pay...or should I just let him pay?

Replies LoveKay Posted at 10:59 am on July 11, 2009 If you told him you are going to pay, then fucking pay! You two are only so young, so nobody really cares. Fauna Posted at 10:31 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from AllyLee Go dutch? I like your answers but what does that mean? it just means splitting the cost, so each paying half at a restaurant or paying for your own ticket and for half of the popcorn at the cinema. ilovetosuck Posted at 10:26 am on July 11, 2009 A relationship is a partnership. Work together. AllyLee Posted at 10:26 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Fauna at 10:25 am on July 11, 2009 Instead of asking to pay for both, why not just say you'll pay for yourself?   He's being nice, but if it's making you feel awkward, just offer to go dutch. Go dutch? I like your answers but what does that mean? seedy underbelly Posted at 10:26 am on July 11, 2009 Why does one person need to pay the lump sum? Just pay individually if you feel bad about taking his money and he feels like he needs to pay for something. Fauna Posted at 10:25 am on July 11, 2009 Instead of asking to pay for both, why not just say you'll pay for yourself? He's being nice, but if it's making you feel awkward, just offer to go dutch. awexome Posted at 10:25 am on July 11, 2009 always try to pay, at least. bosss Posted at 10:25 am on July 11, 2009 try All 8 previous replies displayed.