Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Quick fix. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Tempted[/m] at 12:11 pm on July 14, 2009[quote]Okay. So I've been off and on involved with this guy (T) for over 2 years. We've never dated, just hung out as friends, messed around, and have sex. Kind of like a FWB thing. But I have feelings for him. And sometimes I think he does for me, but he won't committ for shit. And so he's made me afraid to date other people for the reason that I'm afraid if I do, any chance I do have with him will be ruined. Even though he HAS done the same thing to me before and it's very possible he could do it again. Well this guy (P) has been talking to me recently. He's alright looking, and really sweet, and is wanting to talk with me like relationship-wise... My question is, should I stop talking to P (which is the guy I don't like near as much as T) to continue waiting on T? Or should I just tell T that I'm going to see other people until he decides to make up his mind for which he'll get pissed at me for?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Tempted Posted at 12:11 pm on July 14, 2009 Okay. So I've been off and on involved with this guy (T) for over 2 years. We've never dated, just hung out as friends, messed around, and have sex. Kind of like a FWB thing. But I have feelings for him. And sometimes I think he does for me, but he won't committ for shit. And so he's made me afraid to date other people for the reason that I'm afraid if I do, any chance I do have with him will be ruined. Even though he HAS done the same thing to me before and it's very possible he could do it again. Well this guy (P) has been talking to me recently. He's alright looking, and really sweet, and is wanting to talk with me like relationship-wise... My question is, should I stop talking to P (which is the guy I don't like near as much as T) to continue waiting on T? Or should I just tell T that I'm going to see other people until he decides to make up his mind for which he'll get pissed at me for?

Replies CrazyGrrl4U Posted at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 you shouldnt deny yourself other potential relationships because you're waiting around on some guy. you could be missing out on something that could be great. if in two year this guy "T" has committed than chances are he may never. so just move on. tragic romance Posted at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 Go for p. T is at loss for not making the committment. Gruadia Posted at 12:14 pm on July 14, 2009 Just ask T if he has true feelings for you, if he doesn't then go for P. jsgirl Posted at 12:14 pm on July 14, 2009 Wow I am in the exact same position as you. Up to this point I've turned down at least three guys because I keep hoping that this other guy will come back to me. But now I'm thinking that he's just jerking me around and that I need to move on. If these other guys are into you, you should give them a chance. It's the least you can do and more that T will ever do for you. Banana KC Posted at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 Tell T you're going to see other people until he decides to make up his mind. There's not reason to wait if another guy is there for you. Spice Posted at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 The latter. it benefits you more. which is what you should be doing at this stage in your life Fishboner Posted at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 Don't wait around for someone you might never make it with. pclueless92 Posted at 12:12 pm on July 14, 2009 Do the secong option All 8 previous replies displayed.