Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Do long distant relations last? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Victor255[/m] at 5:28 am on May 24, 2012[quote]No it can never last[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Hope7 Posted at 1:18 am on May 24, 2012

Replies Just Waiting Here Posted at 7:21 am on May 24, 2012 Quote: from nyn at 1:28 am on May 24, 2012 "last"? i don't think they can really "last" indefinitely   you can make them work for a while but unless you have something to look forward to. long distance is hard and it's often painful, but if you put in the effort, the understanding, make real plans together and trust and commit to your partner, it can work. being realistic is important. being strong is important. believing in your relationship is essential. This. A long distance relationship is something that is used until you can be together. How long the two people have to stay apart, as well as how definite their plans to be together, will affect the relationship. I was in an LDR for 9 months before my girlfriend and I finally moved to the same state. We're still together now. Had it been much longer than that, I think it would have been difficult, to be honest. Sometimes, love isn't enough to pull a relationship through... and it's hard to change together as a pair when you are apart for so long. So I really think that it depends on the two people involved. Commitment is a must, and if you have doubts, things will fall apart quickly. If both people are dedicated, and they have a clear sign of when they will be together (as opposed to "someday"), I think it's more likely to last. Biccyboo Posted at 6:39 am on May 24, 2012 Quote: from nyn at 5:58 pm on May 24, 2012 "last"? i don't think they can really "last" indefinitely you can make them work for a while but unless you have something to look forward to. long distance is hard and it's often painful, but if you put in the effort, the understanding, make real plans together and trust and commit to your partner, it can work. being realistic is important. being strong is important. believing in your relationship is essential. This. Napster the Hacker Posted at 5:52 am on May 24, 2012 No. Simple as that. TiffaniNichole Posted at 5:50 am on May 24, 2012 they dont last. Victor255 Posted at 5:28 am on May 24, 2012 No it can never last RB2012 Posted at 5:10 am on May 24, 2012 I wouldn't count on it. Silence isnt golden Posted at 5:00 am on May 24, 2012 no, i've never seen one work out Natsy Posted at 3:59 am on May 24, 2012 We've been over this. No. G Sus Posted at 2:19 am on May 24, 2012 If you enjoy a relationship without regular physical contact, hanging out, chatting normally and sex then yeah, an LDR can work. Spice Posted at 1:52 am on May 24, 2012 they last as often as non LDRs rollinraver Posted at 1:46 am on May 24, 2012 you have to work very hard at them, have lots of trust and lots of communication, trust, ive been keeping mines up with my girl who lives an hour away for 3yrs and running birdman101 Posted at 1:44 am on May 24, 2012 this. if you can get their within 6 months usual no issues. if its past 6 months your in for a test and most of them don't work...Quote: from Music2Live at 4:24 am on May 24, 2012 Some do, some don't.   It really just all depends on the people, their attitudes and commitment levels and the circumstances surrounding the relationship. ILoveDan098 Posted at 1:32 am on May 24, 2012 If you both are willing to make it work and you both can remain faithful then yes it can work. It all depends on how much you want it to work out gucciva Posted at 1:29 am on May 24, 2012 Some do Some don't Of course, you can't be in long distance relationship forever nyn Posted at 1:28 am on May 24, 2012 "last"? i don't think they can really "last" indefinitely you can make them work for a while but unless you have something to look forward to. long distance is hard and it's often painful, but if you put in the effort, the understanding, make real plans together and trust and commit to your partner, it can work. being realistic is important. being strong is important. believing in your relationship is essential. Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.