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Jim Raynor Posted at 5:08 pm on May 30, 2012
I seriously am incredibly lonely. I'm miserable.
This state I am now is the most bitter I have been in over four years.
Noone talks to me on POF, and most of them aren't even worth it.
Craigslist is pathetic, nothing but quickies and dick-sucks

1. I am far nicer in real life than I am here. People compliment me on how nice and polite I am.
2. The only reason I am a cunt when I am here is that I see so much shit that gets me mad and I can't keep my eyes out of this.

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Jim Raynor Posted at 4:26 pm on May 31, 2012
Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:30 pm on May 30, 2012

dude, if you were to try any sort of dating site, Craigslist and PoF are two of the worst sites you could even think of using. i've heard horror stories about both
I only made one post on craigslist and it wasn't replied so I gave up.
And I had luck before on POF, met my ex there. She was nice till we broke up.
What would you suggest? I need something free
circa Posted at 11:11 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from NG Spanks at 8:19 pm on May 30, 2012

Quote: from circa at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012

and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you.

Proof.


haha good one bro. but no, i'm merely an observer of those types.
malignant melanoma Posted at 7:00 pm on May 30, 2012
dude, if you were to try any sort of dating site, Craigslist and PoF are two of the worst sites you could even think of using. i've heard horror stories about both
malignant melanoma Posted at 6:54 pm on May 30, 2012
do you have friends? do you ever go out to bars?
willowchaneka Posted at 6:27 pm on May 30, 2012
just be yourself dude be free and go with the flow. dang i sound like a hippie, but it works! exclude pot tho. no one likes an bitchy addict, anyway
Vicodin Posted at 6:22 pm on May 30, 2012
i'd be your friend
but
jackoff473901 Posted at 6:10 pm on May 30, 2012
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Jim Raynor Posted at 5:45 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Areola at 10:08 pm on May 30, 2012

you should learn to be happy alone before you get into a relationship imo

in the meantime i will be your friend, josh :) (i really think thats your name but god knows i could be wrong, its been so long)



I can't say I am not surprised but it's a welcome gesture. And yes my name IS Josh.
Thank you.
Springs Posted at 5:43 pm on May 30, 2012
aww really?

why me?

and yeah just give it a try. There's been a lot of good advice tossed around in this thread, circa areola all of them. just try to apply it all you know?

Jim Raynor Posted at 5:41 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Springs at 9:50 pm on May 30, 2012

Quote: from Jim Raynor at 5:11 pm on May 30, 2012

Quote: from Springs at 9:38 pm on May 30, 2012

you ever try being forward irl? jw
in public? Jesus, the only way I could do that is if this were Mass Effect.

 "Wanna dance? Watch this!"


you gotta work on your self-esteem man

I mean you can be nice but if you don't tell people that you want to date them or ask them out

how are they gonna know?



You do definitely have a point man.
You know Springs, you're one of the few people I strongly respect here.
Areola Posted at 5:38 pm on May 30, 2012
you should learn to be happy alone before you get into a relationship imo

in the meantime i will be your friend, josh :) (i really think thats your name but god knows i could be wrong, its been so long)

Springs Posted at 5:20 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Jim Raynor at 5:11 pm on May 30, 2012

Quote: from Springs at 9:38 pm on May 30, 2012

you ever try being forward irl? jw
in public? Jesus, the only way I could do that is if this were Mass Effect.  

"Wanna dance? Watch this!"


you gotta work on your self-esteem man

I mean you can be nice but if you don't tell people that you want to date them or ask them out

how are they gonna know?

NG Spanks Posted at 5:19 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from circa at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012

and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you.

Proof.

circa Posted at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012
and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you.
Placebo Effect Posted at 5:14 pm on May 30, 2012
I met my girl on facebook.
By a grace of god.
We've been together for 9 months.
Its the best relationship we've ever had.
For our one year we are getting tattoos on our ring fingers of each others initials. Fuck what any body say, cant see em cuz the money's in the way. Real nigga wuts up. lol

For real though I know how you feel. I went like 3 years before this w/o a girlfriend. Just a few flings and I was lonely.
Music helps and friends.

Im an asshole sometimes. But having a clean ass slate and being straight up from the beginning with one another has been the most rewarding thing ever. Fuck it. Get to know me for who I am and you can love or hate me. But i'd rather it be me than a lie. Just gotta put yourself out there and have a plan if you get a response back.

Are you fun?
What do you have to offer a female?
Can you listen?
And also do you love yourself?
Cuz its very hard to find someone to love when you don't give a shit about yourself or where you're headed.
I figured... Once I ogot myself in a position to where I was happy then I could look for someone to share that happiness with. And walllahhh. God placed each other in our lives.

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