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Jim Raynor
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Posted at 4:26 pm on May 31, 2012 |
Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:30 pm on May 30, 2012
dude, if you were to try any sort of dating site, Craigslist and PoF are two of the worst sites you could even think of using. i've heard horror stories about both
I only made one post on craigslist and it wasn't replied so I gave up. And I had luck before on POF, met my ex there. She was nice till we broke up. What would you suggest? I need something free |
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circa
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Posted at 11:11 pm on May 30, 2012 |
Quote: from NG Spanks at 8:19 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from circa at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012
and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you.
Proof. 
haha good one bro. but no, i'm merely an observer of those types. |
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malignant melanoma
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Posted at 7:00 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| dude, if you were to try any sort of dating site, Craigslist and PoF are two of the worst sites you could even think of using. i've heard horror stories about both |
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malignant melanoma
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Posted at 6:54 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| do you have friends? do you ever go out to bars? |
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willowchaneka
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Posted at 6:27 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| just be yourself dude be free and go with the flow. dang i sound like a hippie, but it works! exclude pot tho. no one likes an bitchy addict, anyway |
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Vicodin
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Posted at 6:22 pm on May 30, 2012 |
i'd be your friend but |
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jackoff473901
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Posted at 6:10 pm on May 30, 2012 |
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Jim Raynor
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Posted at 5:45 pm on May 30, 2012 |
Quote: from Areola at 10:08 pm on May 30, 2012
you should learn to be happy alone before you get into a relationship imo in the meantime i will be your friend, josh :) (i really think thats your name but god knows i could be wrong, its been so long) 
I can't say I am not surprised but it's a welcome gesture. And yes my name IS Josh. Thank you. |
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Springs
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Posted at 5:43 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| aww really? why me? and yeah just give it a try. There's been a lot of good advice tossed around in this thread, circa areola all of them. just try to apply it all you know? |
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Jim Raynor
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Posted at 5:41 pm on May 30, 2012 |
Quote: from Springs at 9:50 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Jim Raynor at 5:11 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Springs at 9:38 pm on May 30, 2012
you ever try being forward irl? jw
in public? Jesus, the only way I could do that is if this were Mass Effect. "Wanna dance? Watch this!" 
you gotta work on your self-esteem man I mean you can be nice but if you don't tell people that you want to date them or ask them out how are they gonna know? 
You do definitely have a point man. You know Springs, you're one of the few people I strongly respect here. |
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Areola
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Posted at 5:38 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| you should learn to be happy alone before you get into a relationship imo in the meantime i will be your friend, josh :) (i really think thats your name but god knows i could be wrong, its been so long) |
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Springs
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Posted at 5:20 pm on May 30, 2012 |
Quote: from Jim Raynor at 5:11 pm on May 30, 2012
Quote: from Springs at 9:38 pm on May 30, 2012
you ever try being forward irl? jw
in public? Jesus, the only way I could do that is if this were Mass Effect. "Wanna dance? Watch this!" 
you gotta work on your self-esteem man I mean you can be nice but if you don't tell people that you want to date them or ask them out how are they gonna know? |
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NG Spanks
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Posted at 5:19 pm on May 30, 2012 |
Quote: from circa at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012
and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you.
Proof. |
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circa
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Posted at 5:15 pm on May 30, 2012 |
| and don't get into the whole 'pickup artist' bullshit. that makes you psychoanalyze everything and turns you into a fucking douchebag with recorded jokes and rehearsed lines. you can tell which guys are the ones who need this sort of creative crutch to get laid, don't be one of them. just be a person, people will want to get to know you. |
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Placebo Effect
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Posted at 5:14 pm on May 30, 2012 |
I met my girl on facebook. By a grace of god. We've been together for 9 months. Its the best relationship we've ever had. For our one year we are getting tattoos on our ring fingers of each others initials. Fuck what any body say, cant see em cuz the money's in the way. Real nigga wuts up. lol For real though I know how you feel. I went like 3 years before this w/o a girlfriend. Just a few flings and I was lonely. Music helps and friends. Im an asshole sometimes. But having a clean ass slate and being straight up from the beginning with one another has been the most rewarding thing ever. Fuck it. Get to know me for who I am and you can love or hate me. But i'd rather it be me than a lie. Just gotta put yourself out there and have a plan if you get a response back. Are you fun? What do you have to offer a female? Can you listen? And also do you love yourself? Cuz its very hard to find someone to love when you don't give a shit about yourself or where you're headed. I figured... Once I ogot myself in a position to where I was happy then I could look for someone to share that happiness with. And walllahhh. God placed each other in our lives. |
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