Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How to get over him? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]xmissblondieo[/m] at 2:15 pm on Feb. 6, 2007[quote]I've been with this guy for awhile now & our relationship just gets worse.. We fight ALL the time and i tried to talk about our problems and try to resolve them but all he does is blame everything on me & yell.  He has really bad anger problems, he's an alcoholic, he's lied to me so many times i don't trust him.. How do i get over it all? It's not working out but i do love him a lot and want to make it work because i know its possible but its really hard when there is so many feelings involved.. Ive tried breaking it off but he always ends up texting me or calling me and trying to forget it all happened.. I've tried to forget but all this crap keeps happening.. He just gets mad about everything and blames everything on me & won't talk to me for the rest of the day.. What should i do or how should i get over him?  :sad: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post xmissblondieo Posted at 2:15 pm on Feb. 6, 2007 I've been with this guy for awhile now & our relationship just gets worse.. We fight ALL the time and i tried to talk about our problems and try to resolve them but all he does is blame everything on me & yell.  He has really bad anger problems, he's an alcoholic, he's lied to me so many times i don't trust him.. How do i get over it all? It's not working out but i do love him a lot and want to make it work because i know its possible but its really hard when there is so many feelings involved.. Ive tried breaking it off but he always ends up texting me or calling me and trying to forget it all happened.. I've tried to forget but all this crap keeps happening.. He just gets mad about everything and blames everything on me & won't talk to me for the rest of the day.. What should i do or how should i get over him?

Replies yusougly Posted at 4:23 pm on Feb. 6, 2007 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations hithere Posted at 4:19 pm on Feb. 6, 2007 You need to get out of that relationship. Even though you love him, with time you can find somebody else you love but doesn't treat you like this guy does. You're obviously not in a healthy relationship, and the longer it lasts, the worse it'll be on you. If he keeps trying to get you back, and it sounds like he's doing it pretty easily, just make sure you do whatever you can so that you are not talking to him. Or make sure that you're with a friend most of the time who really knows what's best for you. This is the only sure way to get over him. Making sure you have nothing to do with him will help you deal with it, and you'll probably find somebody else you could see yourself being with. SexyAlenya Posted at 2:16 pm on Feb. 6, 2007 yea that is good All 3 previous replies displayed.