Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Best Friends & Boyfriends Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Missipop[/m] at 1:05 pm on July 2, 2008[quote]em she is obsesed about him just when she say u MUST hang out say no you got other plans she will have to make plans with you another day and if she try 2 get him in your plans then just dont go with her [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 1:02 pm on July 2, 2008 Okay, so maybe I am overreacting, but I thought I'd bring this up here. One of my best friends of about four years started dating this guy a year or so ago. That's all fine, but she is pretty much obsessed with him now. Maybe they are in love... Still though, she cannot go 15 minutes without talking to him whether it is in person, on the phone, through text, online. Well, maybe it is more than fifteen minutes. I guess a couple hours. Yet, she will go days without speaking to me, ignoring my calls, etc., because she is with him. The moment he is busy though, she calls me saying that we MUST hang out because she is so bored. Basically, the only time we can hang out now is when he can't, and even then, she sometimes tries to put him in our plans so she can still see him. I feel like I am just the back-up entertainment for her when her boyfriend is too busy for her. Like, I said, maybe I am making a big deal out of nothing. But, I have a couple other best friends who are dating people, and they all seem to be able to balance whereas she doesn't.

Replies showjumper Posted at 9:31 pm on July 2, 2008 Tell her up front, but nicely, that you are feeling a little neglected. Missipop Posted at 1:05 pm on July 2, 2008 em she is obsesed about him just when she say u MUST hang out say no you got other plans she will have to make plans with you another day and if she try 2 get him in your plans then just dont go with her All 2 previous replies displayed.