Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My Wedding Day Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]swtpie[/m] at 9:29 am on July 17, 2008[quote]My parents divorced when I was 4 cause he had an affair. He eventually married this women. She already had 2 kids. When I was 15, he decided to stop talking to me. His wife always tired to make things sore between us, and she finally did it. Well, I'm 20 right now, and I might be getting married in a couple years. The wife is the type that would say, "She is your daughter, we have every right to be there." She wouldn't do it to reconnect us, but to cause a fight. She is a very immature women. So, lets say on my wedding they did show up, what should i do? Remember, so far I haven't spoken to him in 5 years.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post swtpie Posted at 9:29 am on July 17, 2008 My parents divorced when I was 4 cause he had an affair. He eventually married this women. She already had 2 kids. When I was 15, he decided to stop talking to me. His wife always tired to make things sore between us, and she finally did it. Well, I'm 20 right now, and I might be getting married in a couple years. The wife is the type that would say, "She is your daughter, we have every right to be there." She wouldn't do it to reconnect us, but to cause a fight. She is a very immature women. So, lets say on my wedding they did show up, what should i do? Remember, so far I haven't spoken to him in 5 years.

Replies piercedxangel Posted at 11:45 am on July 17, 2008 Cant you just invite HIM. Or dont invite them at all, its your special day you dont want any drama. :) swtpie Posted at 10:16 am on July 17, 2008 Quote: from bigred23 at 10:06 am on July 17, 2008 If you don't invite them, how would they just show up? If you don't tell them, they wouldn't know when or where it is. My grandparents would definitely tell them. bigred23 Posted at 10:06 am on July 17, 2008 If you don't invite them, how would they just show up? If you don't tell them, they wouldn't know when or where it is. Evolutionism Posted at 9:39 am on July 17, 2008 Quote: from swtpie at 9:29 am on July 17, 2008 My parents divorced when I was 4 cause he had an affair. He eventually married this women. She already had 2 kids. When I was 15, he decided to stop talking to me. His wife always tired to make things sore between us, and she finally did it. Well, I'm 20 right now, and I might be getting married in a couple years. The wife is the type that would say, "She is your daughter, we have every right to be there." She wouldn't do it to reconnect us, but to cause a fight.   She is a very immature women. So, lets say on my wedding they did show up, what should i do? Remember, so far I haven't spoken to him in 5 years. I would have a talk with your father, telling him about your plans to have a wedding. Then you can probably figure out if you want to invite him or not. Either way, I would only invite your father and not his wife. Make him understand why. This wedding is for you and YOUR family not his. carracer Posted at 9:37 am on July 17, 2008 Quote: from xroses are redx at 9:31 am on July 17, 2008 I think the option that would cause the least drama is to let them stay but ignore them. right unless they start to create problems then and only then get them removed otherwise let them feel like assholes Jasonzlpa Posted at 9:34 am on July 17, 2008 Other.   Let your father stay, try to reconnect if you want.  Get your family to get rid of the girl.   fullmooncurse Posted at 9:32 am on July 17, 2008 Haha I'd kick them the fuck out. hivemind Posted at 9:32 am on July 17, 2008 let them stay and ignore them if she starts anything get them removed JulieisWHOA Posted at 9:32 am on July 17, 2008 It's YOUR day. Invite them, sure, let them come. Don't talk to them unless they talk to you, but just be nice and dont let them bother you because that will be one of the best days of your life. quiteanart Posted at 9:31 am on July 17, 2008 Well, if your wedding day *might* be a few years away, then I really wouldn't worry too much right now. But it's not really your fault if his new wife has that kind of influence on him. You're his daughter, so he should have put a stop to that a LONG time ago. I think your dad is being more silly than she is. xroses are redx Posted at 9:31 am on July 17, 2008 I think the option that would cause the least drama is to let them stay but ignore them. Amin mele lle Posted at 9:31 am on July 17, 2008 Try to talk to your dad at first, but ignore her.  If there is trouble, just get close friends or other family members to ask them to leave. barnabas Posted at 9:30 am on July 17, 2008 its not worth it to cause drama. let them stay. you might find that he is still your father and you still love him. Permious Posted at 9:30 am on July 17, 2008 Just marry the bitch. All 14 previous replies displayed.