Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Would You Find it Weird? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 5:25 am on July 28, 2008[quote]My boyfriend and I are very close. We live together, but with my hours, we don't see each other that much. It sorta feels like we're drifting apart. Well, he was saying yesterday that he wanted to spend more time with a guy a work. He was saying to the movies and out for a drink. Now, I find this weird cause they already spend 50 hours together a week. But also because my boyfriend doesn't drink. I'm starting to feel that he is trying to impress this guy. There was rumours a couple years back that my boyfriend was gay, literally. So, that's why it worries me. So, do you think it's weird he wants to spend so much more time with him? :stressed: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 5:25 am on July 28, 2008 My boyfriend and I are very close. We live together, but with my hours, we don't see each other that much. It sorta feels like we're drifting apart. Well, he was saying yesterday that he wanted to spend more time with a guy a work. He was saying to the movies and out for a drink. Now, I find this weird cause they already spend 50 hours together a week. But also because my boyfriend doesn't drink. I'm starting to feel that he is trying to impress this guy. There was rumours a couple years back that my boyfriend was gay, literally. So, that's why it worries me. So, do you think it's weird he wants to spend so much more time with him?

Replies Annessa Posted at 6:20 am on July 28, 2008 Not really because this might be a way to make you want to spend more time with him because he is lonely. MaryLin Posted at 5:52 am on July 28, 2008 Ask him if he's gay. It smells funny. La Motta Posted at 5:50 am on July 28, 2008 Maybe it's an excuse to get further away from you? AnnaMinator Posted at 5:43 am on July 28, 2008 mhmmmmm Anonymous Posted at 5:41 am on July 28, 2008 Quote: from Ifodi at 5:33 am on July 28, 2008 If he's gay.. He's gay. Tell him to be totally straight with you. Maybe you should ask if you could go along, if hes a gd friend with this guy you should get to meet him.. He would never be straight about it. His family is totally against being gay. Ifodi Posted at 5:33 am on July 28, 2008 If he's gay.. He's gay. Tell him to be totally straight with you. Maybe you should ask if you could go along, if hes a gd friend with this guy you should get to meet him.. Anonymous Posted at 5:31 am on July 28, 2008 Quote: from Hoop chic08 at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Why don't you just ask him and see how he reacts. I did. He had a bit of smile, but started yelling. "Don't be so riduclous'. I think he is kidding himself. His parents would disown him if he was gay. skittybaby Posted at 5:31 am on July 28, 2008 Kinda.. MiNNiCK Posted at 5:29 am on July 28, 2008 There could be multiple reasons he's hanging out with him. Obviously one of them is because he's lonely without you. But don't jump to conclusions. I can see your concern, but just because he goes drinking with him could mean he's just going to hang with him at the bar, not to actually partake in drinking. People do like to have the company of others. And rumors are just rumors. Unless you've noticed yourself that he's seeming gay, I wouldn't take it that seriously. shawn2 Posted at 5:29 am on July 28, 2008 All signs point to that.... I don't think they are rumors... SophFairy Posted at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Maybe. Hoop chic08 Posted at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Why don't you just ask him and see how he reacts. Taylor636Baker Posted at 5:26 am on July 28, 2008 A little All 13 previous replies displayed.