Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic We get so paranoid! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]x3Andreax3[/m] at 8:29 am on Aug. 20, 2008[quote]I have a 10 year old sister who is very outgoing for her age. She does whatever she wants and already claims she has a boyfriend. Who lives right across the street. We never know what they are doing over there since his mom is never home? They know a lot about sex and such. We just never know where they go or anything? My sister always goes anywhere she wants with whoever she wants without permission. She doesn't care if my parents, my brother, or I say no. We are all over 16, and she's only 10, yet she bosses us around.   We are just worried something will happen to her. Like getting hit by a car, raped, or anything like that. She just don't listen at all. She stomps out the door and cries. My father already had two nightmares where he got a phone call that she got hit by a car. He said he woke up crying because he though it could really happen someday. Then when we told her, she just laughed and said nothing will happen to her. Kind of like those girls from Maury that think they can do what they want without permission. Not knowing the dangers out there.   What should we do?   Would you let your kids out rule you like they are the boss?   [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post x3Andreax3 Posted at 8:29 am on Aug. 20, 2008 I have a 10 year old sister who is very outgoing for her age. She does whatever she wants and already claims she has a boyfriend. Who lives right across the street. We never know what they are doing over there since his mom is never home? They know a lot about sex and such. We just never know where they go or anything? My sister always goes anywhere she wants with whoever she wants without permission. She doesn't care if my parents, my brother, or I say no. We are all over 16, and she's only 10, yet she bosses us around.   We are just worried something will happen to her. Like getting hit by a car, raped, or anything like that. She just don't listen at all. She stomps out the door and cries. My father already had two nightmares where he got a phone call that she got hit by a car. He said he woke up crying because he though it could really happen someday. Then when we told her, she just laughed and said nothing will happen to her. Kind of like those girls from Maury that think they can do what they want without permission. Not knowing the dangers out there.   What should we do?   Would you let your kids out rule you like they are the boss?

Replies AndWhenHeFalleth Posted at 12:58 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 Take away all of her privileges.  Does she have a TV in her room?  Take it.  A phone?  Take it.  Give things back one by one as she earns them.  FYI, at 10, freedom is a privilege as well. Nail her window shut, flip the lock to the outside, and if she can't mind, haul her ass in there and lock her in until she has a change of heart.  If she smarts off, to her room.  If she tries to leave the house without permission, to her room.  If she sneaks out, put her in her room when she comes home. psychotickid555 Posted at 8:49 am on Aug. 20, 2008 how to stop a kid from leaving, add a lock to all the doors, put it at a height she cant reach, lock it, or lock her inside a room with nothing to amuse herself and nail all the windows shut. leave there for a couple hours and ignore every sound she makes. repeat as needed Violently Happy Posted at 8:43 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Quote: from x3Andreax3 at 11:35 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Good luck with the discipline part. She is just a fucking brat and she doesn't realize it. She calls my mom a bitch all the time. If you smack her ass, she'll scream bloody murder. You have to keep at it. Stay on her ass about shit and she'll learn. Really she's 10, what can she possibly do? You can over power her and control her very easily, you just don't try. DonnieDarkko Posted at 8:40 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Send her to the Shaolin Temple. Seriously. acalypha Posted at 8:38 am on Aug. 20, 2008 no. show her who's boss x3Andreax3 Posted at 8:35 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Good luck with the discipline part. She is just a fucking brat and she doesn't realize it. She calls my mom a bitch all the time. If you smack her ass, she'll scream bloody murder. HaitianGURL67 Posted at 8:35 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Give her some BIG ASS discipline. trust me when it comes to discipline she will know what and what not to do. mattis12 Posted at 8:32 am on Aug. 20, 2008 no, they need rules. Discipline her. Pebbles123 Posted at 8:32 am on Aug. 20, 2008 She's 10!? Lock her in her room :P xStephaniie2k7x Posted at 8:32 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Beat her up...trust  me it will wo rk, seriously. A good ass-whooping will put her in line. honestly its a form of discipline it works she needs reverential fear in her. All 10 previous replies displayed.