Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I need a man.... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]austin s23[/m] at 10:59 am on Sep. 5, 2008[quote]uhh go find someone duh[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 10:24 am on Sep. 5, 2008 I am 15 years old and I want a man. I don't want a boy my age because they are too silly and I never feel safe with them. Recently I have been feeling so depressed over nothing and I wish I had a nice guy to keep my company and have a really strong relationship with someone. Anyone else feel a man would make life seem so much better when you're felling low?

Replies Miss Prophetess Posted at 7:56 pm on Sep. 6, 2008 You never feel safe with a boy your age, but you would feel safer with a MAN?  You shouldn't feel that way.  If a man is having a relationship with an underage girl, there's nothing safe about him.  I agree with Al Legator:  "A man who would be having any kind of deep emotional relationship with a 15 yr old girl is incapable of having a deep or lasting one with a woman." tennisplayerV2 Posted at 11:10 am on Sep. 5, 2008 wow ok...don't make yourself soud so desperate.  Just wait for one to come along and he will austin s23 Posted at 10:59 am on Sep. 5, 2008 uhh go find someone duh rickyspeople Posted at 10:57 am on Sep. 5, 2008 they seem like the resolution, then once you get one they become the problem! also, you're too young for an older man. and, no, i don't consider guys under 20-21 to be men. Natsy Posted at 10:52 am on Sep. 5, 2008 oh he'll keep you company, but he'll want a ... how do i put this nicely...a physical relationship as well, for his troubles lol xx having an older bloke won't solve all your problems, in fact, it will probably create more, so i'd say don't g out with anyone over 17 xx though you seem a bit emotionally unstable so i'd say don't date, full stop. Al Legator Posted at 10:46 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Feeling depressed can easily lead you to not-so-smart behaviour, such as allowing an adult man into your teenage life and fantasies. Girls looking up to older men is not uncommon at all - it may seem like they have things all figured out, have power and prestige(money, car, maybe house). But you could be caught between dorky 15 year old boys and adult men who should be having normal, adult relationships with adult women. A man who would be having any kind of deep emotional relationship with a 15 yr old girl is incapable of having a deep or lasting one with a woman. So, age aside, he is not an adult. He would be, however, using her. I know 15 seems old when you are 15 but you have lots of time to find someone nearer your age, who is more mature and has similar interests and life experience. All of which talks only to your loneliness. You don't seem to understand the nature of your depressed feelings so please talk to a school counsellor about them. whoami111 Posted at 10:46 am on Sep. 5, 2008 you have to get out of the fantasy of getting an older man. Because if they are willing to date you it could mean they either want to use you or they could be a pedophile. zamrambo Posted at 10:39 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from wolfie92 at 10:25 am on Sep. 5, 2008 HAAAA! lol at your patheticness for posting this XD and no, ive never felt like that... wow, you're a bitch. The Professional Posted at 10:35 am on Sep. 5, 2008 If you're looking for a person to fulfill you, you are going to be sadly disappointed. Not to mention the relationship will fail completely. R h i Posted at 10:34 am on Sep. 5, 2008 e-date. Maxxie Posted at 10:34 am on Sep. 5, 2008 lol a relationship wont magically fix your personal issues if anything.. make em' worse kissmeintherain91 Posted at 10:33 am on Sep. 5, 2008 your lookin pretty desprate and anyone who is 15 does not need a MAN nicegirl4060 Posted at 10:29 am on Sep. 5, 2008 u dont need a man to feel better.... u just need to have fun and sone guy will come along dont try to find one he will come when its time MiSS SARAH Posted at 10:28 am on Sep. 5, 2008 I understand what you mean, i have felt that way before too. IceTeaEdwin Posted at 10:27 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from wolfie92 at 10:25 am on Sep. 5, 2008 HAAAA! lol at your patheticness for posting this XD and no, ive never felt like that... Lulz, this made me laugh... Dun get involved with older men...not at your age ^-^ Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.