My uncle was bad to me...I wanna kill him right now..but I can't say anything bad to him because I just don't do this to anybody..I feel bad
He said infront of the whole family that I turn him on. CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS?!
Anyways, I wanna tell him that I am really mad at him and that he is a bad uncle..but Idk how to express my anger..
He doesn't think he's done anything wrong.
But do not put yourself in danger... that is the first and foremost thing.
It strikes me that this uncle may very well be an emotionally abusive type of person. If anything else has happened before or after this, or you think something will happen, GET HELP. As for your problem expressing anger, it is important to be able to express such things. No one can go through life as everyone else's door mat. Even so, the first step is being able to determine the difference between just anger (ie this sorta thing) and unjust anger, but I'll assume you have a pretty good handle on that. But DO NOT LET THAT KINDA SHIT GO ON. (one other thing: was he just being a gross asshole, or was he serious? Because if he was, and you want to confront him, you probably want someone else with you when you confront him) Sorry for being kinda long-winded. That's just my advice
Even so, the first step is being able to determine the difference between just anger (ie this sorta thing) and unjust anger, but I'll assume you have a pretty good handle on that. But DO NOT LET THAT KINDA SHIT GO ON.
(one other thing: was he just being a gross asshole, or was he serious? Because if he was, and you want to confront him, you probably want someone else with you when you confront him)
Sorry for being kinda long-winded. That's just my advice