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Let It Snow Posted at 5:47 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
My granny is about to die.. She had a massive heart attack not even an hour ago. The doctors say she probably won't make it...
I can't go to he hospital because I have to wait on my sister to get home from church.
And to think, she's my only grandparent left.. Wow, this sucks so bad.

Another thing to add to my just so wonderful life.

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error Posted at 6:02 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
sorry to hear that, i hope you get to see her soon
agateophobic x Posted at 5:55 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
i sorry,
*hugs*
Amazingness99 Posted at 5:53 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
Oh no, I'm so sorry honey.

Stay strong, okay? You'll make it through. *hugs*

noraa Posted at 5:53 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
Oh god, honey. I am so, so sorry. I know how bad it hurts when a grandparent dies or could die. You feel like just lying down and sobbing for hours, you are so scared. It's happened to me before, and I know exactly what you're going through.

The important thing to remember is that she won't be in pain anymore. It's so hard to watch, but at least she will be happier and feeling better. It doesn't ease the pain much, but I hope it helps.

Sometimes saying goodbye takes a while. You may hear her voice everywhere, or feel her when you go places. All that is normal. Death is a thing that is dealt with differently for everybody. You may feel yourself changing. It's all part of the process.

Don't hurt yourself or do anything of that sort. She wants you to keep moving forward. Sure, you can have your time of sadness, that's normal. But don't shut down because she did. The dead, they kept walking their whole lives. You have to pick up after her.

Stay close to your family. It may be hard to let them see you cry, but you're all crying and it's important to let your emotions out--don't bottle up. Talk to a friend, write in a journal, blast the music, get it out.

PM me anytime you want, okay? I'll listen. I know how it feels.

xxx
Stay strong.
Nora

MystiqueBeauty16 Posted at 5:51 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
I'm really sorry. :(
dixiegirl101 Posted at 5:50 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
sorry just be with her as much as you can
HaitianGURL67 Posted at 5:50 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
Aww i'm so sorry hun.
-Hugs-
The Stranger Posted at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
I am sorry *Hugs* I will pray for u grandma
MixedDelight Posted at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
:( I'm sorry to hear that. I was devastated when my gran died too.
gdeeaz Posted at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
i am sorry
Jman19 Posted at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
I'm sorry.

E-hugs being sent your way.

SCGirl09 Posted at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
i'm sorry this is happening to you. my grandmother passed away in february, and it hurts like crazy. but you'll make it through, i promise :)
18SoulReaper18 Posted at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
i'm sorry. *hug*
babecakes Posted at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
im so sorry. =(.
darkproject15 Posted at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008
Aww Hun Im sorry  D:
*HUGS*
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