Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How do I tell my mom that I don't want to go watch my grandpa die? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]MiNNiCK[/m] at 9:14 am on Nov. 13, 2008[quote]Trust me, go see him to at least say goodbye. Tell your mother it's hard for you, but you should go say goodbye. You will regret it later down the road. I've had many people die on me that I didn't say goodbye and I felt like shit. Actually, my sister just died in a car accident about a month ago and I blamed myself for being a cunt to her all the time. I know that it's not my fault, but I could have been nicer. Anyways...take the opportunity that you have to do so. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 9:06 am on Nov. 13, 2008 We just found out he has cancer, and now she wants to go up north to see him. Its like an eight hour drive. She wants to stay for a while. Shes talking about like, five weeks and shit. Fuck that. I just don't know how to say that I don't want to go. I'm not even sad really. I guess I'm suppose to be but I'm not. Yeah, its sad but I'm not going to cry or anything..Why can't she just go by herself? I know I sound like a bitch right now but...I just don't wanna go. And I probably will be sad when he dies but right now I just don't feel anything.

Replies JolynnS Posted at 10:47 pm on Nov. 13, 2008 u should go and see him i feel kinda regret as i never get to see my grandpa when he passed away 6 years ago =[ Deeznutz FYC Posted at 10:37 pm on Nov. 13, 2008 At the moment you won't feel any sympathy because he is still here on this world with you. You don't realize what you have until it's gone. I highly recommend you make the sacrifice and go on the trip with your mom. I promise you, you'll feel like such a jerk if you don't do this, you skipped out on your grandpa's last remaining weeks so you can spend time to yourself. I highly recommend you sit down and think about this for some time, you gotta think of the cause and effect of the whole situation. If you don't do this, your family might lose respect for you. Do this for your family and your grandpa, in the end you can say to yourself that you actually did show some compassion. You can also talk to a school counselor about your situation, they might be able to talk things out with you and give you advice on what to do. I hope everything works out for you. SimbaGrrl Posted at 9:16 am on Nov. 13, 2008 Posts made on my phone suck. MiNNiCK Posted at 9:14 am on Nov. 13, 2008 Trust me, go see him to at least say goodbye. Tell your mother it's hard for you, but you should go say goodbye. You will regret it later down the road. I've had many people die on me that I didn't say goodbye and I felt like shit. Actually, my sister just died in a car accident about a month ago and I blamed myself for being a cunt to her all the time. I know that it's not my fault, but I could have been nicer. Anyways...take the opportunity that you have to do so. Catacomb Posted at 9:13 am on Nov. 13, 2008 fortunately for me all the people i know who are dying are within short distance of my residence maceyface Posted at 9:08 am on Nov. 13, 2008 ha wow i've been in the exact same situation it seriously sucks. 5 weeks is a little extreme, but if you don't go... at least for a little while, you'll regret it. see if there's any way you can compromise and be driven home early or just come up later. King Kong Posted at 9:08 am on Nov. 13, 2008 This is your final chance to say Good bye. Yuor lucky you get that. GO All 7 previous replies displayed.