Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Just when I don't think I have to worry.. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Tr0uble89[/m] at 8:01 am on Nov. 16, 2008[quote]Well - My "best friend" or so she claims, invited the guy I like over for drinks lastnight - it was fun and everything - until the end started nearing..   Everyone left and I started cleaning up her apartment - and to my knowledge, The guy I like was sleeping in the spare room , and this "friend" of mine sleeping in her own - and I was crashing on the couch. I go to put my sweater away in the spare room which my bag was.. I knocked on the door and no answer.. I turn on the light - empty bed.. and right away I couldn't help but cry.   My "friend" had just given me a speech about how she didn't want to lose me as a friend over a guy, and I was her best friend and the truest friend she's ever had - then.. she's crawling into bed with him.   I couldn't even explain how heartbroken I was..and am. I feel sick to my stomach when I think about how I have to talk to her later - I was so upset.. that she just crawled into bed with him - knowing how much I like him - and him .. just.. I don't even know.   Whenever I get my hopes about anything - I seem to get terribly let down - It sucks and I told myself I'll get over it, which I will eventually.. but the whole thing with HER - I lost trust and respect for her .. and a lot of it.. I could never do that to my friends.   I ended up leaving her place - calling my best friend crying (who's actually been there for me) and her boyfriend over heard I was walking to their house - and made me catch a cab - even paid for it too.   Thank God for real friends eh.   What a let down though - how am I even supposed to look at her ? and we JUST started talking again too .. What am I even supposed to say to her ?! :sad: I'm allowed to be upset right? :confused: Also - when I was leaving.. she wanted me to stay there.. and started crying, and hugging me.. I had absolutely no emotion towards her .. no forgiveness, no hate.. nothing. I was completely soulless to her[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Tr0uble89 Posted at 8:01 am on Nov. 16, 2008 Well - My "best friend" or so she claims, invited the guy I like over for drinks lastnight - it was fun and everything - until the end started nearing..   Everyone left and I started cleaning up her apartment - and to my knowledge, The guy I like was sleeping in the spare room , and this "friend" of mine sleeping in her own - and I was crashing on the couch. I go to put my sweater away in the spare room which my bag was.. I knocked on the door and no answer.. I turn on the light - empty bed.. and right away I couldn't help but cry.   My "friend" had just given me a speech about how she didn't want to lose me as a friend over a guy, and I was her best friend and the truest friend she's ever had - then.. she's crawling into bed with him.   I couldn't even explain how heartbroken I was..and am. I feel sick to my stomach when I think about how I have to talk to her later - I was so upset.. that she just crawled into bed with him - knowing how much I like him - and him .. just.. I don't even know.   Whenever I get my hopes about anything - I seem to get terribly let down - It sucks and I told myself I'll get over it, which I will eventually.. but the whole thing with HER - I lost trust and respect for her .. and a lot of it.. I could never do that to my friends.   I ended up leaving her place - calling my best friend crying (who's actually been there for me) and her boyfriend over heard I was walking to their house - and made me catch a cab - even paid for it too.   Thank God for real friends eh.   What a let down though - how am I even supposed to look at her ? and we JUST started talking again too .. What am I even supposed to say to her ?! I'm allowed to be upset right? Also - when I was leaving.. she wanted me to stay there.. and started crying, and hugging me.. I had absolutely no emotion towards her .. no forgiveness, no hate.. nothing. I was completely soulless to her

Replies nik1 Posted at 10:33 am on Nov. 16, 2008 I think you should continue exactly as you ended with her.  No emotions for her, no forgiveness, no hate, soulless......nothing.  Write her out of your life.  You don't need to be bothered by having people like her in your life.   Be careful whom you call a friend.  This should be an extremely sacred club that you allow someone into and don't expect too much out of anyone until they pass the tests. Tr0uble89 Posted at 8:07 am on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from yellowacid1 at 8:05 am on Nov. 16, 2008 How do you even know she went to him? It might be a big misunderstanding. .. I walked into the bedroom to let her know I was leaving, and both were lying in the bed.. santana 08 Posted at 8:06 am on Nov. 16, 2008 You are def. allowed to be upset. she crossed the line and u said it yourself she is not a true friend. I say cut her off completley and just keep to your true friends who have been there for you. Manipulative Acid Posted at 8:05 am on Nov. 16, 2008 How do you even know she went to him? It might be a big misunderstanding. LipsOfDeceit Posted at 8:05 am on Nov. 16, 2008 shes the perfect example of a lieing selfish and uncaring bitch tbh. atleast it shows you you shouldnt even bother making friends with her again. stick with the people you know you can trust. All 5 previous replies displayed.