Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic best friend advice Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]kaylar28[/m] at 10:48 am on Nov. 18, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]Minnick[/m] at 8:40 am on Nov. 18, 2008[quote]That's a sticky situation. Maybe explain to them both that you want to stay friend with them both and to keep their issues within their own time, not yours. You don't need to sit around and listen to bullshit about the other. You can be friends with both, there's nothing wrong in that.[/quote] basically what they said. Explain to your friends that u care about them both but you dont want to get involved,and tell them they need to figure this stuff out on there own.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post frogsandcircles Posted at 8:38 am on Nov. 18, 2008 I need some advice. Two of my best friends hate each other and both of them keep telling me everything they hate about the other. My absolute best friend forever, like a sister to me, and I'd do anything for her, says that my other friend is fake and a liar and a backstabber and all that. And I have never seen her be any of that. And the other friend I haven't been friends with for that long, but we are still very close says that my best friend is opinionated and stupid and too clingy. And she is opinionated but why is that a crime? But she's not stupid or too clingy. And I love them both and don't want to lose either. But I don't know how to fix this.

Replies kaylar28 Posted at 10:48 am on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from Minnick at 8:40 am on Nov. 18, 2008 That's a sticky situation. Maybe explain to them both that you want to stay friend with them both and to keep their issues within their own time, not yours. You don't need to sit around and listen to bullshit about the other. You can be friends with both, there's nothing wrong in that. basically what they said. Explain to your friends that u care about them both but you dont want to get involved,and tell them they need to figure this stuff out on there own. ZuzuS2 Posted at 10:10 am on Nov. 18, 2008 Honestly, I don't think you can do anything. Most of the time peoples friends are always like that. If you really want them to get alonng so they don't keep pulling on you, I can say taht you have to get teh mt talk to each other. Or, you tell them that you feel weird having them talk abbout the other everytime you're with them. MiNNiCK Posted at 8:40 am on Nov. 18, 2008 That's a sticky situation. Maybe explain to them both that you want to stay friend with them both and to keep their issues within their own time, not yours. You don't need to sit around and listen to bullshit about the other. You can be friends with both, there's nothing wrong in that. All 3 previous replies displayed.