Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic best friend hates me for talkin to his now ex Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]hopeguz3[/m] at 10:13 am on Dec. 1, 2008[quote]don't be friends with her[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post FuzzyBearJr Posted at 10:09 am on Dec. 1, 2008 ok so my friend pat and his gf sarah just broke up. i might have had part in it happening but it just sounding like it  needed to end. so now pat is mad at me cuz ive been talkin to his ex sarah and he thinks im talkin shit about him to her and telling her things.. but the thruth is, i havent really told her anything.. just agreed on some of her statements or reasons as to why she was dumping him.. but like i let pat get cheatd on once by this other girl he dated and i didnt tell him that and he didnt delete me from his friend list for that shit but also that girl was a ex of mine.. but now he hates me cuz i talk to his ex sarah just cuz i feel like she is a cool person. and i kinda feel like he is being inmature about that. i mean so wat just cuz u feel like she screwd u ova dont mean u should be pissd cuz im talkin to her and so wat if she does screw me ova in some way then u can just say u tried waring me.. livewire wat do u guys think ?

Replies NightChick666 Posted at 8:01 pm on Dec. 5, 2008 Quote: from FuzzyBearJr at 9:49 am on Dec. 3, 2008 Quote: from amiee at 3:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Oh, I see. Well having a girlfriend yourself makes things a lot clearer. Your friend needs to chill by the sounds of it. Although you could also respect all his issues and not talk to him about her, unless you're doing that already. yea ive been doing that but he wont even talk to me anymore at all.. he completely doesnt want me to be friends with her just cuz he thinks she is evil and fucked up lol lol ell I am evil and fucked up :) FuzzyBearJr Posted at 9:49 am on Dec. 3, 2008 Quote: from amiee at 3:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Oh, I see. Well having a girlfriend yourself makes things a lot clearer. Your friend needs to chill by the sounds of it. Although you could also respect all his issues and not talk to him about her, unless you're doing that already. yea ive been doing that but he wont even talk to me anymore at all.. he completely doesnt want me to be friends with her just cuz he thinks she is evil and fucked up lol amiee Posted at 12:56 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Oh, I see. Well having a girlfriend yourself makes things a lot clearer. Your friend needs to chill by the sounds of it. Although you could also respect all his issues and not talk to him about her, unless you're doing that already. FuzzyBearJr Posted at 12:45 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Quote: from amiee at 2:45 pm on Dec. 2, 2008 Maybe it has something to do with you not only having something to do with them breaking up in the first place, but you pursuing something with her or when they did break up. At least, that's how it might appear to him. You could try explaining that you're only interested in her as a friend and why on earth you were involved in their break-up.  he knws i have no more then just friendly intencions towards her cuz i already have a amazing gf.. and i was involved because i was kinda a messanger/snitch.. i mostly got reason from both of them on to as why they should break up then took one of there sides amiee Posted at 11:45 am on Dec. 2, 2008 Maybe it has something to do with you not only having something to do with them breaking up in the first place, but you pursuing something with her or when they did break up. At least, that's how it might appear to him. You could try explaining that you're only interested in her as a friend and why on earth you were involved in their break-up. NightChick666 Posted at 11:05 am on Dec. 2, 2008 so he was planning to dump me but was such a pussy that the waited for me too then got all pissed and "I'm going to get my revenge" QuantumBlaze Posted at 10:33 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:26 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 "Relationships come and go, but friendships stay forever" Like the friendship this guy has with that girl. Ha. XOallixs0n Posted at 10:30 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did.  I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. I mean of course if the person is truly a bad seed and it would be against the best interests of the friendship to pursue any relationship with the ex after the relationship ends poorly... but overall I see very few instances when the friendship of two people should be sacrificed for the sake of another friendship. If that's how you feel, that's cool. I'm not going to debate this with you, seeing as how there is no real answer and doing so is just a waste of time. Micus Posted at 10:26 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:20 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 "Relationships come and go, but friendships stay forever" Like the friendship this guy has with that girl. XOallixs0n Posted at 10:20 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from FuzzyBearJr at 1:19 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:13 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway.   Why not, exactly?   Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis?   Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her.      It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did.  I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. wat if he pat was planning on dumping her   but it just happend that she did the dumping before he did ? "Relationships come and go, but friendships stay forever" Micus Posted at 10:20 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did.   I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. I mean of course if the person is truly a bad seed and it would be against the best interests of the friendship to pursue any relationship with the ex after the relationship ends poorly... but overall I see very few instances when the friendship of two people should be sacrificed for the sake of another friendship. FuzzyBearJr Posted at 10:19 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:13 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway.    Why not, exactly?    Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis?    Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her.   It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did.   I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. wat if he pat was planning on dumping her but it just happend that she did the dumping before he did ? XOallixs0n Posted at 10:17 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:13 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway. Why not, exactly? Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis? Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her. It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did. I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. FuzzyBearJr Posted at 10:15 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:13 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway. Why not, exactly? Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis? Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her. thank u that is just how i feel about it Micus Posted at 10:13 am on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway. Why not, exactly? Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis? Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her. Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.