Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic my mother is not reasonable.. please give me advice. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]byebyebeautyful[/m] at 4:49 pm on Dec. 1, 2008[quote]im really sick of this. im 19. my mom treats me like im 14. maybe even worse. she tries to control my every move, my every choice, my lifestyle even. for example: she wanted me to take an extra calculus class that i didnt want to or need to. she was screaming at me because i absolutely refused to sign up for it.... another example: she makes me pay about 55 a month for my phone line. i discovered that i can get a single line and pay 65 a month. when i told her this, she had a fit and started blackmailing me. (cuz if i did get my own line she wouldnt be able to watch who i talk to) now: she lets me take her car to school and work but she watches the speedometer like crazy and sometimes ill ditch school and chill with one of my friends that im "not allowed" to hang with, and this counts for about 70% of my friends (my mom is crazily racist too). TODAY i went to my friends house and now im being yelled at for my speedometer being 10 miles over what its supposed to be... how can i deal with this??? thanks to anyone who reads this and helps me.. and she doesnt make compromises with me or talk to me. just punishes. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post byebyebeautyful Posted at 4:49 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 im really sick of this. im 19. my mom treats me like im 14. maybe even worse. she tries to control my every move, my every choice, my lifestyle even. for example: she wanted me to take an extra calculus class that i didnt want to or need to. she was screaming at me because i absolutely refused to sign up for it.... another example: she makes me pay about 55 a month for my phone line. i discovered that i can get a single line and pay 65 a month. when i told her this, she had a fit and started blackmailing me. (cuz if i did get my own line she wouldnt be able to watch who i talk to) now: she lets me take her car to school and work but she watches the speedometer like crazy and sometimes ill ditch school and chill with one of my friends that im "not allowed" to hang with, and this counts for about 70% of my friends (my mom is crazily racist too). TODAY i went to my friends house and now im being yelled at for my speedometer being 10 miles over what its supposed to be... how can i deal with this??? thanks to anyone who reads this and helps me.. and she doesnt make compromises with me or talk to me. just punishes.

Replies 2kewl4u2know Posted at 4:57 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from byebyebeautyful at 6:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 4:52 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Try moving out.  If you can't do it on your own then move in with someone else (maybe even on campus?).  If it's that your mom is holding college tuition over your head or you need her car, then I guess you're stuck there until you can afford it on your own.  Until then, you just have to ignore it. i go to community college for now, im waiting to transfer in a year, then i can move out. im trying to do really well in school and i know ill just fuck it up if i get a job that gives too many hours, ill be stressed and worse off than now. i just wish htere was somehow to passify her from being like this to me My mom isn't as bad as that, but she has a way of getting under your skin.  The most you can do while there is continue doing what you want and bear with it.  It's hard living under your parents' roof, even when you're an adult because you still have to live by their rules.  Like at my house, my brother (who is 24 and living in the basement) can't have girls in his room, and I (18) still can't stay the night at my boyfriend's when I'm home from college. It's annoying and frustrating, but they are still doing a lot and it's still their house.  Just remember, 1 more year. surfergurl Posted at 4:55 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 move out, if you need a car, borrow a friends..live on campus where she can't control you byebyebeautyful Posted at 4:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 4:52 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Try moving out. If you can't do it on your own then move in with someone else (maybe even on campus?). If it's that your mom is holding college tuition over your head or you need her car, then I guess you're stuck there until you can afford it on your own. Until then, you just have to ignore it. i go to community college for now, im waiting to transfer in a year, then i can move out. im trying to do really well in school and i know ill just fuck it up if i get a job that gives too many hours, ill be stressed and worse off than now. i just wish htere was somehow to passify her from being like this to me Zetsuai Posted at 4:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 There isn't anything you can really do about her behavior. You could try and sit down with her and try reasoning. If that doesn't work, then maybe you and a friend could try and get a place together. XsmilygirlX Posted at 4:54 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 You need to move out.  Go stay with a friend or something. JustaKid Posted at 4:53 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 if i were u id be like fuck off cunt im 19 now and u cant control me no more bitchhh 2kewl4u2know Posted at 4:52 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Try moving out.  If you can't do it on your own then move in with someone else (maybe even on campus?).  If it's that your mom is holding college tuition over your head or you need her car, then I guess you're stuck there until you can afford it on your own.  Until then, you just have to ignore it. g princess Posted at 4:51 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 thats crazzy. what do you do when shes yelling at you and stuff? Latin Muscle Posted at 4:51 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Tell her to shut her trap. Slap that woman. Bitch needs to learn a lesson. MixedDelight Posted at 4:51 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Move out already. You're 19? Live on res at your university. or get your own place. Show some initiative to get out of that controlling environment. Everlongx Posted at 4:51 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Quote: from byebyebeautyful at 4:49 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 im really sick of this. im 19. my mom treats me like im 14. maybe even worse. she tries to control my every move, my every choice, my lifestyle even. for example: she wanted me to take an extra calculus class that i didnt want to or need to. she was screaming at me because i absolutely refused to sign up for it.... another example: she makes me pay about 55 a month for my phone line. i discovered that i can get a single line and pay 65 a month. when i told her this, she had a fit and started blackmailing me. (cuz if i did get my own line she wouldnt be able to watch who i talk to) now: she lets me take her car to school and work but she watches the speedometer like crazy and sometimes ill ditch school and chill with one of my friends that im "not allowed" to hang with, and this counts for about 70% of my friends (my mom is crazily racist too). TODAY i went to my friends house and now im being yelled at for my speedometer being 10 miles over what its supposed to be... how can i deal with this??? thanks to anyone who reads this and helps me.. and she doesnt make compromises with me or talk to me. just punishes. Disown the bitch. See Me Now Posted at 4:50 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 Move out- get a job and your own place. She's crazy Lally Posted at 4:49 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 If your 19, go move out All 13 previous replies displayed.