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Anonymous Posted at 12:00 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
i started being friends with this guy at high school a few weeks ago, we hang out most days at school but whenever we see his friends they always joke that we have some kind of sexual relationship. i mean yeah it doesnt bother me THAT much but its getting annoying, i mean i hardly know them or him for that matter. and i have a boyfriend and its just getting really awkward and annoying. think they'll just get bored with it after a while an give up? what would make them stop?

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Raiku Posted at 2:30 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:06 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Raiku at 1:09 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 4:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut

  explain how this is true?
  I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.


 

 because theres no woman that isnt a slut


aren't you prince charming.


yes, yes i am

Anonymous Posted at 2:06 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Raiku at 1:09 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 4:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut
 

 explain how this is true?  
 I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.


because theres no woman that isnt a slut


aren't you prince charming.

Raiku Posted at 1:09 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 4:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut

explain how this is true?
I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.


because theres no woman that isnt a slut

Anonymous Posted at 1:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut

explain how this is true?
I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.

Raiku Posted at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
mayabe its because you are a slut
2kewl4u2know Posted at 12:31 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Natsy at 2:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx
 

 more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...


I think the issue here is her boyfriend is getting annoyed by it, and not necessarily that he really thinks she's cheating, but it's one of those things where you hear people say stuff like that a lot and it starts getting to you, even though better judgement says they're wrong.  It doesn't make her uptight in the least, it just means she prefers not to be the butt of such perverse "jokes."

hersheyparker Posted at 12:29 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Maybe he's not a friend.
Anonymous Posted at 12:28 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Natsy at 12:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx
 

 more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...


I'm not uptight, i wouldn't say its uptight to dislike practically strangers joking about you being a slut and cheating on your boyfriend, if it was my close friends or even friends i wouldn't care. you have a very immature sense of humor.

Natsy Posted at 12:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx

more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...

Anonymous Posted at 12:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx

more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.

Natsy Posted at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx
DawningMidnight Posted at 12:13 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
yeah if you tell them to stop or get annoyed theyll just think theyre right and keep going, so dont let them see it bothers you
good luck with the jerks
2kewl4u2know Posted at 12:12 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Call him out on it, that's what I did.  I had a guy friend tell all of his little swimmer friends that I "wanted him so bad I tore his underwear to get to him."  True, no one believed him because they knew him and they knew me, but I still called him out on it, called him and made him explain it to me (which he acted stupid about it), and ended our friendship.

I don't mess around with stupid shit like that.

Anonymous Posted at 12:09 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
Quote: from SuperSarah at 12:06 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

or just tell them what really going on u have a bf...

they know i have a boyfriend... another problem is my friend's started sorta playing along with it, i mean he's obviously joking but its making it worse
SuperSarah Posted at 12:06 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
or just tell them what really going on u have a bf...
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