She is the most immature person (about relationships) ever. She has a boyfriend every three months, in which she pronounces that she loves him, and they make out, etc. etc.
That is not neccessarily the problem. The problem is that every time she gets a boyfriend, she changes. She gets fake. She doesn't deserve it.
Now, this would not strike me so hard if I did not have the background I had.
I'm not going to go into extensive details here, but for most of my life, I've had problems. I was not the kind of person you'd want to be around. I fixed all that, for the most part. I thought that because I was so repulsive (I am not referring to be fat, or anything silly like that. I had real problems), no one could ever adore me.
I didn't change for anyone else, but I changed to be a better person. But anyways, it didn't make a difference. People still don't adore me. It makes me bitter sometimes.
I am not jealous, I am just appalled that someone could take someone's care so...frivolously.
Quote: from YellowDuckie at 2:24 pm on Dec. 4, 2008 It's not really your business. If you can't accept her then move on. Well, whenever she gets a boyfriend, there is suddenly nothing to talk about. She's not my best friend anymore when she gets a boyfriend.
It's not really your business. If you can't accept her then move on.
Well, whenever she gets a boyfriend, there is suddenly nothing to talk about.
She's not my best friend anymore when she gets a boyfriend.
Then you need to bring it up with her. Let her know you feel. If she's not willing to at least recognize how her behavior is effecting you (And most people wont.) then you may need to find a new friend.
She's probably just filling a void. Maybe you should talk to her about it instead complaining on the Internet. If you were a real friend, you'd be worried and not annoyed or appalled.
I just talked to her about it, but it doesn't make me any less annoyed.
I don't really fall for that "if you were a real friend".
If I wasn't a real friend, I wouldn't still be her friend, after her four boyfriends, in which she became a fake bitch every time. Until they broke up, of course, and she was back to normal.
Anyway, yes, unfortunately you get those kinds of people.