Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My friend is so stupid Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Chava[/m] at 4:48 pm on Dec. 9, 2008[quote]Okay everyone (I mean everyone from myself to her family to his family) has told my friend not to get involved with the asshole she's now about to have a child with. He's just not ready to even commit to a job let alone a child. And here's her latest blog. What a suprise Is it Wrong to Want to Need Him? Category: Life Is it wrong to not want josh out till 2:30 am drinking for the past 8 hours.  I feel like the only thing i dont like about being pregnant is that everyone still expects me to be me, and function as if im not carrying a baby that is 5lbs, and is jaming himself into my ribs 24/7.  Its asumed its still easy to bend over constantly and do numerous things. I don't get great sleep people.  How can I expect people to be considerate of me after the baby is born, if they can't take it wasy on me now. Yeah I told him he can have one night a week with his friends. But shit I never get a break and I haven't for the past almost 9 months. And I wont be able to for the rest of my life.  I have decided to drop most the people I know so I can devote myself to him and this family to prove I want it to work. It just seems like i still have to share a part of him with his friends.  If he is out with them after the baby comes, and god forbid I need him home to help me, certain people can't understand that.  I hate people who bitch about something when they don't even know how it is.  It's just cuz they are selfish.  They have cars, why can't u come see him.  The only other thing is I wish I could have a job just so I can stop worrying about me doing my part, and the fact that i will never look the way I did before god gave me this blessing. :rolleyes: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Chava Posted at 4:48 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 Okay everyone (I mean everyone from myself to her family to his family) has told my friend not to get involved with the asshole she's now about to have a child with. He's just not ready to even commit to a job let alone a child. And here's her latest blog. What a suprise Is it Wrong to Want to Need Him? Category: Life Is it wrong to not want josh out till 2:30 am drinking for the past 8 hours.  I feel like the only thing i dont like about being pregnant is that everyone still expects me to be me, and function as if im not carrying a baby that is 5lbs, and is jaming himself into my ribs 24/7.  Its asumed its still easy to bend over constantly and do numerous things. I don't get great sleep people.  How can I expect people to be considerate of me after the baby is born, if they can't take it wasy on me now. Yeah I told him he can have one night a week with his friends. But shit I never get a break and I haven't for the past almost 9 months. And I wont be able to for the rest of my life.  I have decided to drop most the people I know so I can devote myself to him and this family to prove I want it to work. It just seems like i still have to share a part of him with his friends.  If he is out with them after the baby comes, and god forbid I need him home to help me, certain people can't understand that.  I hate people who bitch about something when they don't even know how it is.  It's just cuz they are selfish.  They have cars, why can't u come see him.  The only other thing is I wish I could have a job just so I can stop worrying about me doing my part, and the fact that i will never look the way I did before god gave me this blessing.

Replies Chava Posted at 11:14 am on Dec. 11, 2008 Quote: from tell me again at 8:08 am on Dec. 10, 2008 Sure, the guy doesn't sound like the ideal husband or dad. But it sounds like she's made a genuine commitment. Her blog is just her thoughts about her struggles. You just sound petty and bitchy though. That's my opinion. Yeah    Their idea of a relationship is an on and off sexual rollercoaster. She lived with me for a while during her pregnancy and during that time she was with 3 or 4 guys (3 are definate we're not sure if she was sleeping with the other guy but it seemed like it). He's always off and on between her and his old girlfriend. I'm just saying we all told her and now she's bitching about it. It's a told you so situation. And no she won't know I posted anything because she's not on this site. beingme Posted at 12:59 pm on Dec. 10, 2008 why in the FIRST place would you post something of hers? wont she see it? and know your bitching about her..jus sayin tell me again Posted at 5:08 am on Dec. 10, 2008 Sure, the guy doesn't sound like the ideal husband or dad. But it sounds like she's made a genuine commitment. Her blog is just her thoughts about her struggles. You just sound petty and bitchy though. That's my opinion. Chava Posted at 5:15 pm on Dec. 9, 2008 So no opinions? All 4 previous replies displayed.