Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Why do some parents treat their children bad? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]stratocaster69[/m] at 5:26 pm on Dec. 12, 2008[quote]because there idiots...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Feel The High Posted at 5:26 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Serious question. Discuss please.

Replies agerask Posted at 5:59 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from Mediocre at 5:50 pm on Dec. 12, 2008Quote: from agerask at 5:48 pm on Dec. 12, 2008Quote: from Mediocre at 5:42 pm on Dec. 12, 2008  first-hand experience says you're wrong. Because anecdote always trumps science, amirite? Actually, it's because spanking works. I am right. Mediocre Posted at 5:50 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from agerask at 5:48 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from Mediocre at 5:42 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from agerask at 5:38 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 it's probably because it's a proven method of parenting.    Too bad the research collectively says the opposite.     my parents spanked my brothers and i and i plan to use the same with my own children. it teaches kids to associate negative behavior with negative results, which is effective in all senses of the word.    It merely teaches children to associate getting caught by people who have power over them with negative results. first-hand experience says you're wrong. Because anecdote always trumps science, amirite? agerask Posted at 5:49 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from mcrfool at 5:46 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Spanking is not a proven method of parenting.   Read into psychology. first-hand experience says differently, and i don't put much stock in psychology. agerask Posted at 5:48 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from Mediocre at 5:42 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from agerask at 5:38 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 it's probably because it's a proven method of parenting. Too bad the research collectively says the opposite. my parents spanked my brothers and i and i plan to use the same with my own children. it teaches kids to associate negative behavior with negative results, which is effective in all senses of the word. It merely teaches children to associate getting caught by people who have power over them with negative results. first-hand experience says you're wrong. mcrfool Posted at 5:46 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from agerask at 8:38 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 i'm not really sure what you qualify as "bad," but the parents who are particularly evil to their children probably resent the burden of bearing and keeping a child. however, if you're talking about disciplinary punishment as spanking, it's probably because it's a proven method of parenting. my parents spanked my brothers and i and i plan to use the same with my own children. it teaches kids to associate negative behavior with negative results, which is effective in all senses of the word. Spanking is not a proven method of parenting. Read into psychology. xidus Posted at 5:43 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 they dont know what to do? :S Feel The High Posted at 5:42 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from Mediocre at 5:39 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 They treat their children badLY. And it's because they enjoy having power over other people, generally. That or stupidity. Not so mediocre now... you corrected me. Mediocre Posted at 5:42 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from agerask at 5:38 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 it's probably because it's a proven method of parenting. Too bad the research collectively says the opposite. my parents spanked my brothers and i and i plan to use the same with my own children. it teaches kids to associate negative behavior with negative results, which is effective in all senses of the word. It merely teaches children to associate getting caught by people who have power over them with negative results. brownee Posted at 5:41 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Lots of things go into that issue. Jealousy, mental problems, regret, anger problems, how they were treated as kids, etc. cherryD Posted at 5:40 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from 9 Volt at 9:35 am on Dec. 13, 2008 Quote: from CherryD at 5:33 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 No. Why, is it suppose to explain how I read into this? No, but I believe it would certainly change your opinion on a parent's perspective of "punishment"  Well, some parents just don't have hearts, but, I know I sound ridiculous, some of them really don't know what they are doing is harsh. Mediocre Posted at 5:39 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 They treat their children badLY. And it's because they enjoy having power over other people, generally. That or stupidity. agerask Posted at 5:38 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 i'm not really sure what you qualify as "bad," but the parents who are particularly evil to their children probably resent the burden of bearing and keeping a child. however, if you're talking about disciplinary punishment as spanking, it's probably because it's a proven method of parenting.  my parents spanked my brothers and i and i plan to use the same with my own children. it teaches kids to associate negative behavior with negative results, which is effective in all senses of the word. 9 Volt Posted at 5:35 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from CherryD at 5:33 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 No. Why, is it suppose to explain how I read into this? No, but I believe it would certainly change your opinion on a parent's perspective of "punishment" cherryD Posted at 5:33 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Quote: from 9 Volt at 9:31 am on Dec. 13, 2008 Quote: from CherryD at 5:28 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 They don't treat their children bad, in their opinions. It's just, it's different for everyone and their way of "disciplining" their children. ..Have you ever read "A Child Called It?" No. Why, is it suppose to explain how I read into this? xobeautifulgirlox Posted at 5:32 pm on Dec. 12, 2008 Because they probably have been treated bad and abused during their life. That isn't at all an excuse, but that is usually involved. Most recent 15 of 25 previous replies displayed.