Today, I came home from visiting my dad (my parents are divorced and I live with my mom and prefer it that way). My mom's a sweetheart, but, like all moms, can get on your nerves sometimes. I always help out, do errands for her, and all that stuff, but we get in fights once in a while because of petty things. Like my room, for instance. She just wants me to clean it, and I said that I would, but then she said something like, "Well maybe you would be better off living with your father because I don't like when we get in arguments over small things." My response was, "Oh, really? I love it." C'mon... I hate it just as much as she does. Then she'll say, "Well I'm just making a statement. Can't I do that?" I'll get frustrated over it. I won't yell, but you can clearly tell that I'm frustrated because I try to explain things, and it'll go around in circles, until she starts to say things to make me feel guilty. Things that I never said. And that frustrates me more.
Anybody else go through this? I just cleaned my room. Wasn't planning to do it until my day off tomorrow, but I did it tonight to get her to stop. Seriously, sometimes it's the first thing I hear from her in the morning when I'm still sleeping, and the moment I step in the door, again.. the same thing.
you and your mom have a really nice relationship considering some fights ive heard n seen
We really do. But we have our differences of opinion and our stupid fights. For the most part, it's nice in our household, but sometimes she also really frustrates the hell out of me. Still, I'd do anything for her and she'd do anything for me. I just wish she'd stop saying things to