Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Fuckin A Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]scout123[/m] at 3:45 am on Jan. 11, 2009[quote]this is what we like to do. we get upset and push you away. then we get pissed when you say 'okay i'll leave you alone' because you left us. it's a TEST[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Neodymie Posted at 3:43 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I hate it when my friends are upset and they wont talk to me. I wanna help but it's kinda hard when I don't know what the problem is. Girl tells me she spent the night crying. I ask whats wrong she wont tell me. Then she says shes driving and I ask where and she tells me out of this town. I said I would go to her house to talk to her. I said she could come up to my house. I volunteered to meet her somewhere. All no. This is frustrating, I worry about her but she wont let me help.

Replies Neodymie Posted at 4:43 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from NikkiG at 4:32 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I love u! Love you too I guess.? NikkiG Posted at 4:32 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I love u! Neodymie Posted at 4:29 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from NikkiG at 4:23 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Im jus messin withchu. Keep doin what u doin baby Uhhm, I think I kinda understood that one. NikkiG Posted at 4:23 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Im jus messin withchu. Keep doin what u doin baby Neodymie Posted at 4:22 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from NikkiG at 4:21 am on Jan. 11, 2009 if u bad then do somethin ho Wanna repeat that in english? NikkiG Posted at 4:21 am on Jan. 11, 2009 if u bad then do somethin ho Neodymie Posted at 4:21 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from NikkiG at 4:20 am on Jan. 11, 2009 kiss my pussy bitch Sorry, rather not catch herpes.. NikkiG Posted at 4:20 am on Jan. 11, 2009 kiss my pussy bitch Neodymie Posted at 4:17 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from NikkiG at 4:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009 she wants to deal with it herself. Leave her alone creep Piss off bitch! its only me Posted at 4:16 am on Jan. 11, 2009 So many of my friends are like that, and in some cases so am i. She probably just needs some space by herself to get things sorted in her own head. Then after that she may start talking.   Speaking from being on both sides of the argument, although its hard to stand back and watch her like this she needs to be able to deal with whatevers bothering her on her own terms. Sometimes in these situations a help just makes a hinderence.   I'm a worrier too. All you can do is make sure she knows you're there to talk to and trust she'll come to you if need be. :) NikkiG Posted at 4:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009 she wants to deal with it herself. Leave her alone creep cherryD Posted at 4:01 am on Jan. 11, 2009  I think basically she just wants to deal with it alone. Although you can try to help her, there's nothing much you can do if she doesn't want to talk about it. All you can do is offer to listen to her if she wants someone to talk to. giraffeofdoom Posted at 3:50 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I have a friend like that. I just have to let her go off, and cry alone. After that shes usually good to go, or atleast talk to me. Rainbow Blight Posted at 3:47 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I don't think there's really anything you *can* do to fix the problem abruptly.  Maybe something really traumatic happened to her recently and she hasn't gotten over the initial shock yet.  I'd say give her time.  Be supportive, be nice to her, call her, just don't talk about the problem.  Eventually she'll start to get over it and she'll start opening up to you about it.  This is what I've seen in my experience; it takes time. ShadyNarCotic Posted at 3:46 am on Jan. 11, 2009 All i can suggest is Give her time and space to think stuff over... I even tend to do that myself..and i don't mean to Most recent 15 of 18 previous replies displayed.