Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Help! I need advice.. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]carelesmind[/m] at 9:29 pm on July 1, 2009[quote]hes probly not cheating, hes like "your a good friend" a.k.a. it could be "thanks for the job offer!" dont assume... se where it goes.. dont over react...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 9:27 pm on July 1, 2009 So i walked into my bedroom at 12:30 am and i hear my uncle talking on the phone outside the house. weird. why is he outside at 12:30? I listen to his conversation and hes talking to a woman from florida..and is saying stuff like "ever since i first saw you in that dress i knew i wanted to be your friend".. and "youre such a good friend". My uncle works for my dads business, and lives in my house basement with his wife and his son (my cousin). both of whom work for my dad. He's saying stuff like "its free to call you from work so you tell me when to and i will".. I dont know what to do..my dad is working his ass off right now in the kitchen for this new business project. Should i go down there and just tell him about how i think my uncle might be abusing his job?.. or should i tell him that i think he's talking to other women when his wife is sleeping?? i dont know what to do..i like the man but he's an alcoholic slacker who is living off of my parents... my parents are going through trouble financially anyways... how could he do stuff like this...ugh help.

Replies Mindwalker Posted at 9:32 pm on July 2, 2009 If he is an alcoholic slacker then do something about it, but a lot of people use company phones to call people, it just makes sense....it's not abusing the company unless you stay on the phone for hours and run a huge bill up. rebelution33 Posted at 9:30 pm on July 1, 2009 tell ur dad everything and let him handle it it is his brother and its not ur business its ur dads and they need to sort out out on there own carelesmind Posted at 9:29 pm on July 1, 2009 hes probly not cheating, hes like "your a good friend" a.k.a. it could be "thanks for the job offer!" dont assume... se where it goes.. dont over react... conections Posted at 9:29 pm on July 1, 2009 Hmmm should check it out first and if its true report. 4est Posted at 9:29 pm on July 1, 2009 Tell your dad what you heard. Your loyalty should be to your immediate family, and their business, which in turn supports you. The Wolfhound Posted at 9:28 pm on July 1, 2009 I don't think you should act until you know for sure. Only if you know it harms you or those close to you directly, not just to be a snitch... All 6 previous replies displayed.