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Anonymous Posted at 11:33 am on May 1, 2012
Because it's not good to always depend on people to keep you happy. Half of the time or most of the time they could care less about your emotions. Many people are selfish. Sometimes i do feel lonely and very bored so I end up giving in and going with the flow with my "friends" but at the end up the day I end up feeling disappointed because of their mistreatment, rudeness as well as lack of maturity or common sense towards others feelings. Then when they realize that you haven't been hanging out with them for about 2+ weeks they start acting all nice towards you and acting like they care about you. "Oh how have you been we miss you so much, we have to get together and party hard again, get wasted." Yeah, they don't really care about how you are doing as a person, they just wanna use you as someone they can party with, maybe because they got bored of their other friends or because they want to make their group bigger when partying so they can feel "popular" who knows. *sigh* Just ranting I guess. This is how most of the friends i've had in my life time are and I get a new group of friends about every 3 years for those reasons, but they all just proof me right and end up acting the same. See, huge disappointment. And they say being antisocial is bad, well I don't blame antisocial people for being how they are. It's a crazy world out there, people will eat you alive.

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Anonymous Posted at 4:30 pm on May 3, 2012
Quote: from EmerleeX at 10:26 am on May 3, 2012

Quote: from Anonymous at 7:52 pm on May 1, 2012

Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012

They could care less?
 

 Yes that is what I said.


Could care less doesn't make sense.

It's Couldn't care less.




Thank you.

EmerleeX Posted at 10:26 am on May 3, 2012
Quote: from Anonymous at 7:52 pm on May 1, 2012

Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012

They could care less?

Yes that is what I said.


Could care less doesn't make sense.

It's Couldn't care less.

Anonymous Posted at 6:50 pm on May 1, 2012
Quote: from 1i at 2:14 pm on May 1, 2012

Quote: from Anonymous at 1:52 pm on May 1, 2012

Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012

when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision?
 

 *sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess.


So basically things would be great for you if you could be around people most of the time, but those people were actually considerate of your feelings?

i'm not trying to sound like an emotional wreck or a "big baby" i just want to be respected is all. I guess yes, what you said.

1i Posted at 2:14 pm on May 1, 2012
Quote: from Anonymous at 1:52 pm on May 1, 2012

Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012

when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision?

*sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess.


So basically things would be great for you if you could be around people most of the time, but those people were actually considerate of your feelings?
ohlawdy Posted at 12:13 pm on May 1, 2012
i prefer to be a loner, too! i love being with my animals, nature and my own thoughts/fantasies. it's all good. as long as you are happy, that is all that matters.
Anonymous Posted at 11:52 am on May 1, 2012
Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012

They could care less?

Yes that is what I said.

Anonymous Posted at 11:52 am on May 1, 2012
Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012

when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision?

*sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess.

EmerleeX Posted at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012
They could care less?
1i Posted at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012
when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision?
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