Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i wanna be thin, he doesn't want me to? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]JackieisBlue[/m] at 8:19 pm on July 8, 2008[quote]keep going![/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post lovelylindsae Posted at 8:19 pm on July 8, 2008 ok. i'm 5'7 and 155 lbs (spread evenly around my body). i want to get down to 120-125 but my bf doesn't want me to. he think i'm fine now but i AM actually chubby no matter what my BMI says. he says 10 lbs tops but i'm thinking more like 30-35... however. i can't seem to lose any anyway so it looks like i'm stuck. should i give up or keep trying?

Replies devilindisguize Posted at 1:44 am on July 9, 2008 i know how you feel. i wanna be thin but my boyfriend doesnt want me too either. but i dont care what he says, its my body so i'll do what i like with it. try and stay healthy. the bmi is there for a reason, try and stay in the healthy range. JuggaletteBaby Posted at 8:35 pm on July 8, 2008 if you want it, do it. fullmooncurse Posted at 8:32 pm on July 8, 2008 You should be happy that he likes you the way you are. dolce e gabbana Posted at 8:31 pm on July 8, 2008 fuck your boyfriend do what you want and yes go with the plan swtpie Posted at 8:29 pm on July 8, 2008 Try. At the point when I weight that much, I thought I was fine...but now I'm VERY overweight. Do something now before it gets harder. Themakingofagod Posted at 8:26 pm on July 8, 2008 Lose whatever weight you want to be HEALTHY, thats all that matters, if he doesn't like you trying to be healthy, he's obviously not looking out for your interests. tkedwn119 Posted at 8:25 pm on July 8, 2008 I'm 5' 4" and 120lbs.  Don't know if you need to cut that much dark eric Posted at 8:25 pm on July 8, 2008 If he wants u to be chubby then dont lose weight windmillkickyodog Posted at 8:22 pm on July 8, 2008 just be healthy. none of that anorexia bullshit. desireelovesyouu Posted at 8:22 pm on July 8, 2008 When you are taller like that it would be worse if your weight was less like you want it to be. The weight you are now seems perfect. Im around 5'7" mguitar1234 Posted at 8:22 pm on July 8, 2008 who's body is it? yours, correct... therefore you shouldn't give a shit what your boyfriend says! pinkertongrass Posted at 8:21 pm on July 8, 2008 do what you want. He probably just doesn't want you to get "out of his league" or something. camillelong 26 Posted at 8:21 pm on July 8, 2008 rather than trying to lose weight why not try toning? 2ndbreakfast79 Posted at 8:21 pm on July 8, 2008 keep trying. and it should really only matter that you are comfortable with the way that you look, not what someone else thinks you should look like, unless it's an extreme situation like anorexia or severe obesity. Just Waiting Here Posted at 8:21 pm on July 8, 2008 You need to be comfortable with your body, and if it's something you aren't happy with, then you can change it.  The best way to go about doing it is probably just exercising.  You don't need to change the diet, and just exercise to tone up the areas you aren't exactly happy with?  It's up to you... at the end of the day, you need to be comfortable win your own body, right?  But like I said, I wouldn't go with dieting... I would just exercise.  This will keep your body healthy, and help keep you in a shape and size that you can feel comfortable with. Most recent 15 of 20 previous replies displayed.