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Topic I just got the results of my STD test, and found out I have Chlamydia.
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misssmadejavuu Posted at 11:55 am on Nov. 26, 2008
I feel so terrible right now, I called my boyfriend and told him that I had it. And he wasn't to happy he said "I'll call you later" and hung up on me. I either got it from him, or got it from my most recent ex, because all of the other people I slept with between them we used condoms.  
Should I tell my ex that he should go get checked out?
I know my boyfriend should go get checked out.


Please don't tell me that I am a whore, or I deserved to get this. I feel bad enough already.

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MindFreak20 Posted at 2:36 am on Nov. 28, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:15 am on Nov. 28, 2008

Quote: from MindFreak20 at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008

What have we learned?  
 Random sex with random people=bad.  

 At least you learned your lesson.  
 The hard way..


 
Funny because I didn't have random sex with random people. I had sex with people I knew, and they were people that I trusted.


And just look at where that got you.

misssmadejavuu Posted at 2:15 am on Nov. 28, 2008
Quote: from MindFreak20 at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008

What have we learned?
Random sex with random people=bad.

At least you learned your lesson.
The hard way..



Funny because I didn't have random sex with random people. I had sex with people I knew, and they were people that I trusted.

MindFreak20 Posted at 2:13 am on Nov. 28, 2008
What have we learned?
Random sex with random people=bad.

At least you learned your lesson.
The hard way..

addicted to girls Posted at 11:22 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
bummer
NikkiInkz Posted at 12:15 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
Yes, you must tell your ex.
You don't deserve it, you practised safe sex and probably had reasons for not doing so with the other two. ]
Definitely tell your recent ex. He needs to be checked.
You current boyfriend os probably worried that he has it, so give him time, he needs it.
I hope things work out for you
FurryPanther Posted at 12:14 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 1:06 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Quote: from FurryPanther at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Can't you get that shit non sexually?
 

 It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance.  

 Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie.  

 FP


Thank you, I just feel disgusting.
And I want to know where I got it from.
And I'm afraid he will break up with me, but if he does.
It means it wasn't worth it.


I understand entirely, though I haven't personally been there. You didn't know, but you're being up front, honest, and dealing with it. There's no shame here, and no reason for him to be angry.

FP

misssmadejavuu Posted at 12:06 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
Quote: from FurryPanther at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Can't you get that shit non sexually?

It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance.

Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie.

FP


Thank you, I just feel disgusting.
And I want to know where I got it from.
And I'm afraid he will break up with me, but if he does.
It means it wasn't worth it.

FurryPanther Posted at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
Quote: from Praise the Lard at 12:56 pm on Nov. 26, 2008

Can't you get that shit non sexually?

It's a urethral infection. I suppose it's remotely possible, but only in freak chance.

Chlamydia is curable through antibiotics, so don't worry overmuch. Get him checked too, you both do an antibiotic run, and it's gone. No biggie.

FP

sadnessness Posted at 12:01 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
tell your ex defo. and anyone else that you have had sexual contact with
switchfoott052 Posted at 12:00 pm on Nov. 26, 2008
tell ur ex otherwise if he has it he'll be spreading it. make sure ur ex tells all the girls he's been with too if he turns out positive
Quantumleaper Posted at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008
you got it from me....im sorry.

NikkiMikki Posted at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008
Yeah, you should tell him/them.

Sorry to hear that.

Just Waiting Here Posted at 11:59 am on Nov. 26, 2008
Hey, at least Chlamydia is curable :).  Try not to stress about it... things happen, and even if you used a condom, there is a chance you could have gotten the STD from ANY of those people.

I would let them know.  Again, it IS curable, and you should mention that to them.  :).

misssmadejavuu Posted at 11:58 am on Nov. 26, 2008
Quote: from Medevac at 11:56 am on Nov. 26, 2008

i had it too

it's not really a big deal. i didnt even bother to tell past sexual partners



Well I didn't have any symptoms, so I could've had it for a while.
Or my boyfriend could've given it to me.

I feel bad, because he could have it on his dick, and in his mouth because he has given me oral.
I'm afraid he will break up with me, we haven't even been dating a month yet.

abbigayle303 Posted at 11:58 am on Nov. 26, 2008
i'm sorry to hear about ur situationbut i think it would be great if u tell ur ex so he could b tested and does't give it to anyone else.
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