-- Posted by helovesme at 11:22 pm on June 26, 2008 ok my 8th grade year i was lyk so falling for this guy named Jose Luis,,, but, well he didnt speak much English, so yeah our relationship wasnt too...yeah... but we went out a little and i really liked him and he really liked me... [he speaks GOOD english now...] at the end of the school year i broke up with him because we would be split between schools... and we'd have a lack of communication and all that stuff... but i promised him i would go out with him when he came to the High School... But back in February i started going out with Houston...and we r in luv... seriously... and weve been together ever sense.... but i kinda feel like i lead Jose Luis on and stuff... i mean im not gunna dump Houston... Hell No... but i still feel bad cuz he thinks we r gonna go out this year coming up... and yes i KNO that b/c his bestfriend told me.... so.... yeah... i feel bad -- Posted by wooo at 11:23 pm on June 26, 2008 he'll get over it -- Posted by Cambria at 11:25 pm on June 26, 2008 GOOD english. rofl well english? -- Posted by Lewdness at 11:25 pm on June 26, 2008 but, well he didnt speak much English, so yeah our relationship wasnt too...yeah... This made me LOL. Anyway, I think you should explain the situation to Jose Luis. And honestly, I don't think he's still waiting for you. -- Posted by child of rock n roll at 11:26 pm on June 26, 2008 Well just try to tell him in the nicest way possible that things between him and you arent going to work out because you are dating someone else. Easy enough right? But the words to use...thats a toughy. Dont lead him on. Dont flirt, just treat him as a friend. Maybe let him see you when you are with your bf, then he'll get the message without you having to say anything at all. -- Posted by Lewdness at 11:26 pm on June 26, 2008 Quote: from Cambria at 11:25 pm on June 26, 2008 GOOD english. rofl well english? No. "He speaks good english" is fine. If she were to use well, she'd have to arrange the sentence. Ie. He speaks english well now. -- Posted by Uruz 7 at 1:51 am on June 27, 2008 Well, that just proves how worthless our emotions are - not to say their really worthless, but you can't put much trust in them, yet you made a long term promise with this guy that you would go out with him, and despite that, you never reserved the commitment to hold up your promise . . It would be impossible not to break his heart, but the best you could do is to try to tell him in a nice way, hopefully he will be mature enough to accept the truth. The bigger problem is that when one is hurt in this manner, the closer you are to that person, the more painful it is for that person, because you're close, but he knows he can't be with you . . Well . .  its a result of what you sowed, you'd have to clear it up somehow - and no matter how you try to wrap the truth, he'll still open the wrapping to find out whats really inside . . My brother kinda went amok thanks to something like this, so I sort of feel for him . . . . WEll . . lets just hope hes grown up a bit since then . .