-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:09 pm on June 27, 2008 how do I get a girlfriend?  I don't know how to find I girl I am interested in.  I have never really been interested in a relationship before or a girl that I want to be with.  I think its just a confidence issue.  I really don't know how to fix it -- Posted by Skip at 1:11 pm on June 27, 2008 you learn confidence by living, not by following advice on an internet forum.   -- Posted by Skip at 1:11 pm on June 27, 2008 you just need to start trying more to get yourself out there, take more risks socially you know? -- Posted by KathyN at 2:41 pm on July 9, 2008 That's totally ok. You just haven't found a girl you are interested in being with... that's ok dude, relax.