-- Posted by PennyandMe at 1:02 pm on June 28, 2008 Do you believe that people are more 'likable' as soon as they enter a relationship? As a girl, I find a man more attractive if he's already got a girlfriend... Maybe it's a sign that they are datable or something, that others want them too. Guys, are girls hotter when they date others? Vs. a girl whpo has been single for years? -- Posted by CondescendingMe at 1:03 pm on June 28, 2008 I find a man more attractive when he's taken, and since i'm taken, right now, i've noticed more guys checking me out then before. Maybe it's just how it works? -- Posted by MXfreak at 1:04 pm on June 28, 2008 i like a girl who has had a few boyfriends before, but not one whos been single for like 8 years. maybe one thats been single for about 3 months? -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 1:04 pm on June 28, 2008 OmG yes, when i was with my ex- girls who were too shy to talk to me before  , started talking to me and flirting more than ever. I guess   jealousy makes you act. -- Posted by handsfree at 1:05 pm on June 28, 2008 No. -- Posted by Smargon at 1:07 pm on June 28, 2008 I guess it's because you like how they are in a relationship and want the same sort of thing? -- Posted by branflakes at 1:09 pm on June 28, 2008 yes, it's simple evolutionary psychology most women want the alpha male, the guy that is "superior" to her and can give their possible future offspring the best chance of survival -- Posted by ajakana at 1:11 pm on June 28, 2008 Yeah I hate when I'm in a relationship and then a bunch of guys wanna come and take me away they find me more attractive I've been single four years before I met my bf now a sworm of guys are out to get me and shit like wtf if you wanted me you should have taken me when I was fucking single -- Posted by J adore at 1:16 pm on June 28, 2008 I guess it's wanting what you can't have. What's "off-limits" seems more interesting, and enticing :) I agree.. -- Posted by lucid dreams19 at 1:22 pm on June 28, 2008 i am actually more attracted to single girls cuz its actually attainable, -- Posted by Zdrav at 8:54 pm on June 28, 2008 Most people are too insecure to trust in their own instincts so they need peer approval. I think you could argue that people only want attractive mates just to feel superior to others. -- Posted by insurgent at 8:56 pm on June 28, 2008 I think, for some women, they sense confidence in a guy who's taken.  For some guys, it's really just a conquest thing.  From experience, when I see a cute girl with another guy I wonder, "How long would it take me to make her mine?"