-- Posted by Majo at 2:11 pm on June 29, 2008 My ex and I broke up because he can't handle the distance between us anymore (almost 3,000 miles). We were going to go to school together but now his Mom won't let him go back...and, quite honestly, I don't know if I'm going to be okay there... I'll have to see where he used to live, where I parked and walked across the road to get to him, where I sat and waited for a taxi with him, where we ate together, where I went to class with him...and I'm afraid I'm going to have a full on emotional breakdown. I don't know if I can handle this. -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 2:12 pm on June 29, 2008 Eh, move on. You will continue to live your life and find someone else. -- Posted by PinkLotus at 2:12 pm on June 29, 2008 Time will heal your heart. -- Posted by brunettechic at 2:14 pm on June 29, 2008 Try becoming good friends. It'll help you heal and you can still hang out. -- Posted by Majo at 2:14 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 5:12 pm on June 29, 2008 Eh, move on. You will continue to live your life and find someone else. La, la, la. I'll move on when you move on. -- Posted by Majo at 2:15 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from brunettechic at 5:14 pm on June 29, 2008 Try becoming good friends. It'll help you heal and you can still hang out. No, we can't, that's the problem, he's not coming back, I may never see him again. -- Posted by brown eyed girl at 2:26 pm on June 29, 2008  I'm sorry to hear that. I know it's hard with all the reminders. But you are going to have to face them. It will be very hard, and yes you might break down. But then you will just have to dry your tears, and hold your head up high. Have a few girls nights out. Try to do as many things as you can to take your mind off of it. For the first while maybe try to avoid those places if you can...then slowly stop. I know it isn't as easily done as said, but you have to try to move on. If you know he isn't coming back, then learn to accept it. Things are going to be hard, I know, but as time goes on...it'll slowly get better. Pm me if you would like. -- Posted by brunettechic at 2:31 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from Majo at 5:15 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from brunettechic at 5:14 pm on June 29, 2008 Try becoming good friends. It'll help you heal and you can still hang out. No, we can't, that's the problem, he's not coming back, I may never see him again. Well, try texting and talking on the phone. Just stay in touch as best you can. -- Posted by DADDYS LITTLE GIRL at 5:00 pm on June 29, 2008 you will get through it only time will make it easier