Pages: 1 2 3  Next -- Posted by Rabbit4U at 4:21 pm on June 29, 2008 So I was doing rounds with the RAs the last week of school.  I saw a boy and girl (who are dating) go upstairs to their rooms while we were in the lobby.  I know who each of their roommates are. When we did rounds, it was about 1 AM in the morning.  We passed the girl's room and there were a lot of people in there talking and hanging out, with the room half open. But when we got to the guy's room, the door was shut.  And his roommate was actually sitting down in the middle of the hallway studying with another girl.  They were just sitting on the floor really late at night.... We were gonna yell at him to move, but they let it go (fire hazard) Do you think that is a sign that the "boy" was getting it on in their room??? -- Posted by Cunning Stunt at 4:22 pm on June 29, 2008 Maybe? Who cares? -- Posted by marshmellowman at 4:22 pm on June 29, 2008 I don't think you can tell from that. Sure it's possible, but why does it matter? If he's getting laid good on him. -- Posted by MXfreak at 4:23 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from marshmellowman at 4:22 pm on June 29, 2008 I don't think you can tell from that. Sure it's possible, but why does it matter? If he's getting laid good on him. QFT -- Posted by UltimateSatisfaction at 4:23 pm on June 29, 2008 maybe. Stop being so fucking nosey. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 4:23 pm on June 29, 2008 If he was, good. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 4:24 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from UltimateSatisfaction at 4:23 pm on June 29, 2008 Doesn't matter. Stop being so fucking nosey. lol  seriously. -- Posted by DCW69 at 4:25 pm on June 29, 2008 If they are a couple should it matter? -- Posted by Event Horizon at 4:25 pm on June 29, 2008 Man my floor would have had our way with you if you think sitting in the hall or getting laid is bad... you'd have had a heart attack -- Posted by k1Lka at 4:27 pm on June 29, 2008 big fucking deal, just cause you aint getting any doesnt mean he shoudln't -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 4:28 pm on June 29, 2008 Well, some of the dorms...you're not supposed to have a member of the opposite sex over, past a certain time. Or for the night. Which I think is dumb, especially when you live in coed floors, meaning...guys and girls share the floor. Not rooms, but the level. My dorm's rule is no member of the opposite sex past 1 a.m., nor are they allowed to stay over. My one roommate doesn't care, so, we let that rule 'slide'. It's mostly to protect the roommate(s). I have my own room. Lock off. What I do in my room is no one's business but mine. If an RA passes by, and suspects, or hears noise, though, by rule, they can report it. Stupidly. -- Posted by sile at 4:29 pm on June 29, 2008 Maybe, why the hell does it matter? -- Posted by l2me3 at 4:30 pm on June 29, 2008 Hell yeah -- Posted by Event Horizon at 4:30 pm on June 29, 2008 my school didn't care at all about that... we could have people pretty much permanently stay if we wanted to and no one would have said anything... -- Posted by KendallMoc at 4:37 pm on June 29, 2008 "it was about 1 AM in the morning." That made me laugh a little. -- Posted by Vintorez at 4:44 pm on June 29, 2008 or he could have been sleeping and the roommate needed to study and didn't want to bother him -- Posted by chicklover at 4:46 pm on June 29, 2008 do you have to report that kind of stuff? i mean its college.... -- Posted by OverTheAir at 4:47 pm on June 29, 2008 Maybe and if so who cares? You're in college, this happens all the time. AND what kinda RA won't let kids sit in the hallway lol, sad. -- Posted by xcutioners at 4:55 pm on June 29, 2008 If you hear noises.. like bed squeaking -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:10 pm on June 29, 2008 do you have to report that kind of stuff? i mean its college.... If it's in the lease, then, yes, you do have to report that stuff. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:11 pm on June 29, 2008 AND what kinda RA won't let kids sit in the hallway lol, sad. Our RA/CA's. It's loitering, and that's breaking a contract/part of the lease. We're not even supposed to leave our doors open, and stuff. -- Posted by Event Horizon at 5:24 pm on June 29, 2008 what a wack-ass school. -- Posted by OverTheAir at 6:21 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from Event Horizon at 8:24 pm on June 29, 2008 what a wack-ass school. Just what I was thinking.. -- Posted by macked at 8:36 am on July 2, 2008 Who cares. If they were, good for them. If it wasn't, fine. Even with college regulations, the students are still adults. If they can't act in adult ways than what's the civil liberty of being able to have sex? As for you, you should grow a set and break the rules yourself. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 1:08 pm on July 2, 2008 . Even with college regulations, the students are still adults. A lease is a leaes is a lease. You break it, you're breaking the contract, and you can get thrown out, legally. -- Posted by EyelashWishes at 2:32 pm on July 2, 2008 does it matter? -- Posted by Event Horizon at 3:23 pm on July 2, 2008 Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 1:08 pm on July 2, 2008 . Even with college regulations, the students are still adults. A lease is a leaes is a lease. You break it, you're breaking the contract, and you can get thrown out, legally. Only by dickhole RA's and kids that think like the OP. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 3:44 pm on July 2, 2008 Only by dickhole RA's and kids that think like the OP. When you sign a lease/contract, you're expected to follow it, no ifs, ands, or buts. Now, I'n not saying I follow the rules. I have my guy stay over, and it's well past 1 a.m. when he leaves, if he does. But, if I get caught, I know I've violated the rules. The RA's HAVE to look for things like this. It's in their contract of work. They don't want a pink slip, just as much as you and I don't want one. -- Posted by Event Horizon at 6:12 pm on July 2, 2008 The level of oversight in the RA department is virtually null. Unless there is an event that surfaces with clear evidence of the RA's knowledge prior/and/or during the act, nothing can/will happen to them. Most RA's understand that it is freshman year [or whatever year one is in] and students are getting adjusted to their new freedom, as well as acting like college students all around. I am not saying that RA's should not do their job, but there is a bit of discretion that is pretty much taken as a given when you get that position. You want to maintain order and keep a safe environment according to the rules, but you also want to respect the rights of the residents and act in a mature/understanding way. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 6:39 pm on July 2, 2008 The level of oversight in the RA department is virtually null. Unless there is an event that surfaces with clear evidence of the RA's knowledge prior/and/or during the act, nothing can/will happen to them. But if an RA SUSPECTS, they are, bound by contract, obliged to make an investigation out of it. Most RA's understand that it is freshman year [or whatever year one is in] and students are getting adjusted to their new freedom, as well as acting like college students all around. As an RA, they must accept their job. They've signed the contract. They have no say around it. I am not saying that RA's should not do their job, but there is a bit of discretion that is pretty much taken as a given when you get that position. You want to maintain order and keep a safe environment according to the rules, but you also want to respect the rights of the residents and act in a mature/understanding way. What the job contract states, as the lease contract, sits firm, and is pretty much set in stone. Discretion is really not an acceptable aspect in an RA's job. The rules come before the students, any day, and every day. You act upon the rules. That is your job as an RA. You're not their friends. You're their landlord, or at least, the landlord's assistant. Pages: 1 2 3  Next