-- Posted by jennay at 8:09 pm on June 29, 2008 so basically, i went on a "pity date" with this one guy. he was really interested in me, i wasn't so much but i was being nice and he wouldn't give up. now he thinks we're "hanging out" and he keeps asking me to do different things with him. how do i get rid of him nicely? -- Posted by shadowofchar at 8:10 pm on June 29, 2008 it was very cruel of you to falsely leading him on... NEVER go on a pity date -- Posted by CondescendingMe at 8:10 pm on June 29, 2008 Honestly, you shouldn't have led him on in the first place. The best thing to do is to end things as quickly and painlessly as possible to avoid hurting him anymore if you keep it up. -- Posted by carnage44 at 8:10 pm on June 29, 2008 Tell him the truth. -- Posted by shadowofchar at 8:10 pm on June 29, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 8:10 pm on June 29, 2008 it was very cruel of you to falsely leading him on... NEVER go on a pity date *for falsely leading him on