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-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 9:58 pm on June 29, 2008

My boyfriend, who I love with all my heart and soul, is planning to kill himself soon after his 18th birthday. His birthday is in August. He says there's nothing I can do to help, and to just not worry about it. We're fighting now, because I said I wanted to change the subject. If he goes, I go. Why do I always get myself in these situations?


-- Posted by eklipse at 9:59 pm on June 29, 2008

Policee, would be nice... considering suicide is illegal.

Sorry, Wasn't finished.

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Or you could look into other options, such as therapy, etc.


-- Posted by Taylor636Baker at 9:59 pm on June 29, 2008

You mean the father of your baby?


-- Posted by lizzy22 at 10:01 pm on June 29, 2008

i would call the police


-- Posted by desireelovesyouu at 10:01 pm on June 29, 2008

What!? That fucking sucks.
Doesnt he want to be with you?


-- Posted by lunatone x0ox at 10:01 pm on June 29, 2008

Hun. Police/family are in need right now. You can't let him kill himself. He might suffer from depression or something serious, but either way... it can be helped. Find help.


-- Posted by Desertfoxel at 10:01 pm on June 29, 2008

he wants attention


-- Posted by Imbetter at 10:01 pm on June 29, 2008

most ppl who plan on killing themselves never do it...


-- Posted by helovesme at 10:02 pm on June 29, 2008

y is he guna kill himself?


-- Posted by XxdeadloverxX at 10:02 pm on June 29, 2008

wow yes if you care about him get him some help police


-- Posted by crazy4you at 10:03 pm on June 29, 2008

Fighting about it won't help anything. You need to calmly discuss it and let him know that you care about him and you don't want him to ruin his and your future (and your baby..?). Suicide is never the way out.. and it's illegal. Tell his parents, even if you might get in trouble, and tell a counselor, and call the cops if you need to. This is serious and it needs to be handled.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 10:04 pm on June 29, 2008

Quote: from Taylor636Baker at 12:59 am on June 30, 2008


You mean the father of your baby?

No. We're not together, anymore. I got back with an ex I've been in love with for 2 years. The baby's dad was just a one night stand friends gone too far thing.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 10:06 pm on June 29, 2008

I don't know what to do with him. He refuses to get help, hates medicine and the whole theory of it, and he's just impossible. I've been through this before myself, and I just don't know what to do. He lives far away, though, and I don't know his family, or anything.


-- Posted by BigWill54 at 10:07 pm on June 29, 2008

Quote: from xPhoenix at 9:59 pm on June 29, 2008


Policee, would be nice... considering suicide is illegal.  

Sorry, Wasn't finished.  

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Or you could look into other options, such as therapy, etc.



actually it depends where you live if your in organ the police won't do anything about it organ the only place sucide isn't illigal


-- Posted by HuffleHaire at 10:08 pm on June 29, 2008

Why does he want to kill himself?

If you're no longer actually involved with him, you should tell someone close to him. Family or something.


-- Posted by eklipse at 10:10 pm on June 29, 2008

Quote: from BigWill54 at 1:07 am on June 30, 2008


Quote: from xPhoenix at 9:59 pm on June 29, 2008

Policee, would be nice... considering suicide is illegal.  

 Sorry, Wasn't finished.  

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 Or you could look into other options, such as therapy, etc.



actually it depends where yu live if your in organ the olice won't do anything about it organs the only place sucide isn't illigal


Okay, no need to correct me, 1 state isn't the general public, and considering she lives in NY, i don't think it matters. Oh, and its Oregon.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 10:23 pm on June 29, 2008

He's got problems. I know for sure that he has depression. His parents are a bunch of drunks, and he's a loner. He only has one best friend, and they've been tight since kindergarten, and now they're drifting....


-- Posted by butterflyboy at 12:06 am on June 30, 2008

you should tell someone who can help him


-- Posted by DADDYS LITTLE GIRL at 4:14 pm on June 30, 2008

Try not to fight with him about it just try to get him to calmly discuss the subject with you.
Why exactly does he want to kill himself?


-- Posted by CeramicFrog at 7:35 am on July 1, 2008

Get the police involved if he is serious. They will stop him.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 9:08 pm on July 1, 2008

Eh I guess he's all talk. He was like Oh, I highly doubt I'm going to do it, but I can't promise, but don't worry about me.


-- Posted by Emily LeAnn at 9:30 pm on July 1, 2008

You seriously need to tell his parents or something.. I mean if he does, then you will feel horrible knowing you knew this whole time. You should seriously just tell your parents or his one.


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