-- Posted by Jazmosis06 at 1:55 am on June 30, 2008 I live with my boyfriend, his brother, the brother's girlfriend (now 4 months knocked up), and my boyfriend/his brothers friend. When i moved in last summer, it was just my boyfriend and his brother. They let this friend guy move in a month after me, but he was only supposed to live here a few days. Clearly that didn't go as planned. They've been trying to get him to leave since then, and he just somehow weasels his way back. He moved out for a week at the beginning of June, but his stuff was still in that room. Now they're letting him stay here til September. This is like the 6th or 7th time they've gone back on kicking him out. i can't stand this guy. He's messy, rude, perverted, among many other things. My boyfriend's thinking is if i don't live with him, we're not together, we're over, it's the end of the world, etc etc. How do i explain that it's not? -- Posted by I want more at 1:58 am on June 30, 2008 like kramer, but in reverse -- Posted by Skyler72 rawrr at 1:59 am on June 30, 2008 I'd just tell him... idk. The truth? Be like dude, your friend is an ass. Either him or me. Then let him think it over. -- Posted by doctapeppadoc at 2:04 pm on July 1, 2008 It's all about the honesty. Just be open... tell him exactly how you're feeling. Explain to him that you really doc are about him and want to be with him, and speak from your heart, and he should see that you really do care and understand hat. If he can't take on your perspective and respect how you're feeling, then I'm not sure he's someone you really want to be with anyway, you know? There's a lot more to a relationshpi than that, and if he really thinks that's such a huge factor that he'd break it off, then I think you deserve better than that.