-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:57 am on July 1, 2008 My boyfriend doesn't seem to be able to get it up! He was a virgin before he met me, and he's good at foreplay, but when it comes to sex it's all a bit awkward and difficult. We had sex once and he came really quickly, and a few other times he's not been able to sustain an erection, or got it up and actually penetrated me, but then it went soft inside me. It's really a source of worry to me atm. Any ideas? -- Posted by rewindurmind at 10:00 am on July 1, 2008 Maybe because once he's came once he isn't horny enough to sustain an erection. -- Posted by doublex at 10:00 am on July 1, 2008 ha ha bitch -- Posted by effyouseakay at 10:00 am on July 1, 2008 He could always go see a doctor. It may be embarrassing for him but they would help in case something is wrong. -- Posted by tennisplayerV2 at 10:02 am on July 1, 2008 ...souns like he is difficult to erect...that sucks -- Posted by peter110788 at 10:02 am on July 1, 2008 erm if he goes soft suggest more foreplay, im sure he'll then get hard again.. he'll be btr if he dont feel tht theres pressure on him -- Posted by x Janelle x at 10:02 am on July 1, 2008 my ex came way too fast when we had sex for the 1st time. -- Posted by gman101 at 10:45 am on July 1, 2008 maybe he is just nervous. or not into you? -- Posted by ajakana at 10:50 am on July 1, 2008 Maybe he can't get horny more than one time or he loses interest in you