Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by Vbby at 9:51 pm on July 1, 2008 Some girls can get so attached to boys, they cant let go. Its only because its their first love and they arent used to the feeling and just dive in. They have sex and get pregnant. I've made my decision, I'm staying a virgin until I'm engaged. Everyones getting pregnant, its like the IN thing. For the first time in my life, I geuss I'm gonna be the outcast. The only reason I wont have sex is because of the whole pregnancy thing though. Is it really THAT hard to remain a virgin? I dont stasrt H.S till august and I dont really see how peeer pressure will affect me. I made my decision earlier after watching ABC familys  " The Secret Life of THE American Teenager" lol -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 9:53 pm on July 1, 2008 LOLOLOLOLL -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 9:53 pm on July 1, 2008 .....you made your decision off of a tv show....rather than real life....good job fucktard -- Posted by Im the Dude at 9:53 pm on July 1, 2008 yeah that's what she said... -- Posted by jennay at 9:53 pm on July 1, 2008 im SO glad i didnt wait. SO glad i got to share that with my first love, before we changed and parted ways -- Posted by addictive love at 9:53 pm on July 1, 2008 :D -- Posted by sidekick k at 9:54 pm on July 1, 2008 hahahaha you're funny -- Posted by ang42490424 at 9:54 pm on July 1, 2008 No it's not hard to remain a virgin. I stayed one til I was 17. I made sure my x and I were safe from getting pregnant. -- Posted by Vbby at 9:55 pm on July 1, 2008 im not a fuck tard, you lame ass mutt. i dont wanna baby, im not finna be a statistic. -- Posted by missarissa at 9:55 pm on July 1, 2008 its not really about the peer pressure that will get you, its more about the certain people that know how to get under your skin. so watch out. *~ ~* -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 9:56 pm on July 1, 2008 Quote: from Vbby at 11:55 pm on July 1, 2008 im not a fuck tard, you lame ass mutt. i dont wanna baby, im not finna be a statistic. i think you're already one... -- Posted by One Two Step at 9:56 pm on July 1, 2008 When the boy says he loves you, he's just tryna get into your pants, keep that in mind. -- Posted by ilovethatbiotch at 9:57 pm on July 1, 2008 yes it is that hard. for me at least. -- Posted by adeline at 9:57 pm on July 1, 2008 ya good luck... -- Posted by ang42490424 at 9:58 pm on July 1, 2008 Quote: from Vbby at 9:55 pm on July 1, 2008 im not a fuck tard, you lame ass mutt. i dont wanna baby, im not finna be a statistic. That's why you use protection. I shared my virginity with my first love we were together for 2 years. It was love and not just random sex. If you have a different view of things then that's just you -- Posted by n00by at 10:00 pm on July 1, 2008 If you're that worried about falling pregnant, then use contraception. Duh. -- Posted by girltripped at 10:01 pm on July 1, 2008 LOL dumb.. you made the choice off a tv show no one really cares what you do wither way you have NO idea silly girl. everything. is a statistic. -- Posted by mommys angel at 10:05 pm on July 1, 2008 i wish i would have waited til i was married to have sex...i didnt now i am 8 weeks pregnant....but oh well people make mistakes and move on....i love that show The Secret Life of An American Teenager.... -- Posted by twilightdancer at 6:55 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from Vbby at 12:51 am on July 2, 2008 Some girls can get so attached to boys, they cant let go. Its only because its their first love and they arent used to the feeling and just dive in. They have sex and get pregnant. I've made my decision, I'm staying a virgin until I'm engaged. Everyones getting pregnant, its like the IN thing. For the first time in my life, I geuss I'm gonna be the outcast. The only reason I wont have sex is because of the whole pregnancy thing though. Is it really THAT hard to remain a virgin? I dont stasrt H.S till august and I dont really see how peeer pressure will affect me. I made my decision earlier after watching ABC familys " The Secret Life of THE American Teenager" lol Well, let me first say that it is so ridiculously easy to have sex and not get pregnant, you know?  So that's kind of a dumb reason.  I mean, condoms are like 99.9% effective, and I'm a paranoid person so I'm on the pill and I still make him use them, because that totally makes up for the .1% So hey, good for you for making up your own mind on things, but your reasoning isn't that sound. Also, it's not peer pressure that influences people so much as it is love.  At least for me anyway.  I wanted to date a guy for at least a year before having sex, but after like 4 months with my boyfriend I was like there is no real reason for me to wait, so I waited one more month for good measure haha, but then we did it.  I guess it's just when you're actually in the situation, your reasoning kind of changes. HTH!!! -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 7:51 pm on July 4, 2008 I made my decision earlier after watching ABC familys  " The Secret Life of THE American Teenager" You made your decision based off a FICTIONAL (which, btw, means NOT REAL) television show? Okay. Well, I'm going to go smoke, now. I mean, tv says it's cool. *shocked face* I would expect this in the "Teen Sexuality" Forums, but not here. -- Posted by kitten008 at 5:18 pm on July 5, 2008 good luck sticking to that -- Posted by EmilyAnn at 6:33 pm on July 5, 2008 That's good that you're waiting. Yeah, you could use protection, but it would still add a lot of stress to your life, and you'd still have the possibility of getting pregnant. Plenty of people still get knocked up even after using protection. Besides, how many guys at your age are really going to want a relationship? If you're having sex when you're just starting high school, chances are you're just getting used. Not all of the time, but...yeah. High school guys. Good luck! :) You can do it. -- Posted by EmilyAnn at 6:36 pm on July 5, 2008 By the way, ignore all of the asshole comments on this topic. It's definitely a positive choice that you want to keep your pants on; everyone else is probably jealous that theirs are always off. Sex is just not something to rush into. Just because you can use protection and prevent a baby, it doesn't mean that you should have sex. Are you people saying that thirteen-year-olds should have sex all the time just because they're capable of using birth control and condoms? It's all about the maturity and emotional readiness, guys, seriously... -- Posted by ManicD at 1:53 pm on July 6, 2008 condoms, morning after pill, there are so many wasy to stay safe and still enjoy sex. -- Posted by RainBowBow at 6:04 am on July 7, 2008 Staying virgin and be a girl is always a good idea -- Posted by abbeyqtpi at 3:42 am on July 10, 2008 everybody bashing her, thats stupid. she's got a point. i agree 100%. only, i'm more whatever happens happens, but not without a condom ahah. i'm making sure i can tell my mom i'm pregnant, and that i can care for something. ahah. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 10:09 am on July 10, 2008 and be a girl Well, she can't change that, too easily. :P -- Posted by JeremyM at 9:28 am on July 15, 2008 Quote: from Vbby at 12:51 am on July 2, 2008 For the first time in my life, I geuss I'm gonna be the outcast. You sound like a fucking bitch to me, babe. -- Posted by Evolutionism at 12:10 pm on July 15, 2008 Quote: from Vbby at 9:51 pm on July 1, 2008 Some girls can get so attached to boys, they cant let go. Its only because its their first love and they arent used to the feeling and just dive in. They have sex and get pregnant. I've made my decision, I'm staying a virgin until I'm engaged. Everyones getting pregnant, its like the IN thing. For the first time in my life, I geuss I'm gonna be the outcast. The only reason I wont have sex is because of the whole pregnancy thing though. Is it really THAT hard to remain a virgin? I dont stasrt H.S till august and I dont really see how peeer pressure will affect me. I made my decision earlier after watching ABC familys  " The Secret Life of THE American Teenager" lol That's a fair decision. However, everybody I know who said they were going to wait, whether is was for marriage or engagement, didn't. If someone doubted them they would argue until their face is blue, but still they didn't wait. It was not because they were liers or didn't have self control, but rather because they actually wanted to. Our sexualities are a very primal and natural part of ourselves. Once two people are in a committed relationship based on mutual love and respect, sexual desire will surface. Engagment is simply tangible proof of such a relationship. I understand you reason for wanting to wait, but those pregnancies you hear about is an example of a seriously irresponsibly coupling. If you want to be extra safe with another man, use birth control AND a condom. I respect your decision, but I think you should wait awhile before you make such a promise to yourself. -- Posted by Twilove at 4:01 pm on July 15, 2008 Hey, I'm graduating in 2012 too!! Still virgin and proud of it Pages: 1 2  Next