-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:16 pm on July 1, 2008 I've been seeing this guy and we're officially going out. I really like him, he's a good guy. We're already talking about sex and i think we're ready for that. However, I used to cut my legs and i have really ugly scars. Do you think I should tell him once and for all about them? Or should i wait till then and there? I've had sex before but it was no strings attached. I think this is serious so I really want to know if it'd be appropriate for me to let him know once and for all. Thanks! -- Posted by itoldyou at 10:17 pm on July 1, 2008 well if you really like them then you should be somewhat comfortable about sharing your past.  if he really likes you, he won't judge. -- Posted by LostInTheClouds at 10:20 pm on July 1, 2008 I think you should let him know about the scars that you have before hand. You wouldn't want him to stumble upon them blindly and become even uncomfortable about seeing them just out of the blue like that.   If you really like him, then you should be able to trust him with any personal secrets that you might have. And if he really likes you like he seems to, then they shouldn't even bother him at all; besides being bothered with concern about you of course. I think that he can just look past it. He can see the pain that you have been through, and can just realize that he is making you happy by being with you and by, more importantly, accepting you for the person that you are. :) -- Posted by One Two Step at 10:21 pm on July 1, 2008 If you want to, or you could keep the lights off. -- Posted by twilightdancer at 6:49 pm on July 4, 2008 That doesn't really seem like something to talk about in the heat of the moment XD ...Tell him beforehand. -- Posted by ultima171 at 8:49 pm on July 4, 2008 scars are no big deal, just tell him...but how did you get them? -- Posted by RainBowBow at 6:13 am on July 7, 2008 Honsety is important. Go tell him