-- Posted by xXI smile fakeXx at 6:54 pm on July 2, 2008 my friend paul. he's 19.. and he's bipolar.. his aunt and his cuzin want him 2 take his meds.. (he takes several antidepressants) and when hes around them he takes the meds with no problem.. but.. when hes with his friend derek.. hes so reluctant.. he duznt take his meds at all and he becomes so suicidal. he's tried 2 kill himself so many times... he used 2 c a phsycologist.. but.. the phsycologist gave him the meds that he refuses 2 take.. wait..here.. let me show u 1 of the things hes written.. "if you think i need to take more pills for depression fuk u i dont need that shit ive got a worse kind of addiction, fuk all you worthless life forms that have left me hanging im tired of holding on im tired of not being able to sleep right im so fukin tired of every one always telling me whats best for me i have come to the conclusion that not everything works out the same for every one" i dont know what 2 du or what 2 tell him. And.. his little brother (my best friend) looks up 2 him so hardcore..if anything were 2 happen 2 paul my friend wud commit suicide or cut or never speak 2 any1 ever again... plz help me... =((   -- Posted by pugdoglover5192 at 6:58 pm on July 2, 2008 Just tell them how you feel and get BOTH of them some serious help!!!  FAST!!! -- Posted by XxdeadloverxX at 7:00 pm on July 2, 2008 wow idk what to say im so sorry -- Posted by pugdoglover5192 at 7:01 pm on July 2, 2008 I totally understand your situation.  I've been studying this for a while.  You just need to look for all of the signs that he is suicidal and never let him be left alone.  You never know what could happen. -- Posted by JustLetMeCry at 7:04 pm on July 2, 2008 Sweet heart my cousin was the same way. He didn't think he had a problem and he had the most severe form of Bi polar. Sometimes theres not much you can do but just sit and have a long talk with him. It took my cousin getting kicked out of his house and the threat of losing his son to actually make him realize that he did need help. For 23 years he refused meds he got sent to jail 10 times and he's made our lives living hell, but he did finally get help. He's on meds and in therapy. There is hope, there really is. It just might take time. While there not much you can do, you can still talk to him. Talk to his family, perhaps have him commited into an institution would help. It may seem extreme but it does make a change. It gets him away from hurtful people and it might make him see where he's headed. I hope this helped! Good luck! -- Posted by xXI smile fakeXx at 7:05 pm on July 2, 2008 "I totally understand your situation.  I've been studying this for a while.  You just need to look for all of the signs that he is suicidal and never let him be left alone.  You never know what could happen"   but.. um.. hes always alone.. =((