-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:05 pm on July 3, 2008 Alright this is going to sound lame but here goes. My boyfriend and I arent experienced when it comes to dating at all. He's 22 and im 21. We are totally geeks and social awkwardness happend alot. Anyways here goes we have the basics down when it comes to kissing(like good-bye kiss) but this whole make out thing is awkward to say the least.  We tried it once but it didnt go so well. I ended up laughing which yea not that romantic and probabky hurt his ego. But the laugh happened because i kept thinking I have no clue what im doing.He keeps saying he is a terrible kisser. So IDk what to do or say to him. Besides I have no experience in this stuff either. So here it is any tips on improving this whole makeout thing would be awesome. And please no responses of it will come naturally because uhh yea for me and him apparently this is not the case -- Posted by Justins Luvmuffin at 10:06 pm on July 3, 2008 just do what your instincts tell you. don't worry about how bad you're doing and it'll go ALOT better. -- Posted by tearsinheaven at 10:07 pm on July 3, 2008 well, it honestly will come naturally. me & my boyfriend were noobs too (at 17), and somehow it worked out for us. we just kind of learned together. -- Posted by icecreambar at 10:08 pm on July 3, 2008 lol. idk. my first time i was thinking in my head "yes yes yes!!!" i was trying not to smile, and keep my gum from going into his mouth at the same time. it was funny. but i didnt laugh i would cry if i did. -- Posted by iluvkeatin at 10:32 pm on July 3, 2008 look it really does honestly come natural. just KEEP practicing and it will get better. there is nothing anyone can tell you you will just have to learn on your own...so just go for it -- Posted by daveythewavey19 at 2:25 pm on July 5, 2008 its natural, just for gods sake, DONT LAUGH, it sooo freakin annoying when a girl laughs during intimate stuff, makes me lose my confidence -- Posted by lissa29 at 7:39 pm on July 20, 2008 man.. the first time i made out i remember thinking "i don't know what i'm doing" the whole time, lol. it comes naturally over time! you will learn fast, just make sure you guys practice a lot ;) -- Posted by QisQ at 5:53 pm on July 21, 2008 If your both in the same boat then dont worry about it. Just keep going at it and it should develope. -- Posted by Evolutionism at 7:39 pm on July 21, 2008 Don't worry too much about it. As many other people have been telling you, just let it happen naturally. -- Posted by Lovehim4ever at 10:02 pm on July 21, 2008 Just tell him youre not laughing because of him, but because you don't know what to do. Overall just don't worry about it and do whatever makes you feel good! You have to be passionate about each other to enjoy it. -- Posted by somelikeitred at 4:17 am on July 24, 2008 let your emotions take over and you will see how you react. -- Posted by ChandraMoon at 9:20 pm on July 25, 2008 Sounds like my first making out, except a bit younger. You just have to keep trying, to give up because it feels awkward. Once you get going it will come naturally. Don't be afraid. Nearly everyone has gone through this, and you guys should enjoy the fact you can be awkward together.