-- Posted by james7311 at 12:05 am on July 4, 2008 ok so i heard of guys getting dumped befor because they were to nice to the girl. and i didnt want something like that to happen to me so i act always  a little mean.. but now my girlfriend says im mean and stuff.. what should i do? -- Posted by Torpid Kitten at 12:06 am on July 4, 2008 Screw women and go gay. -- Posted by echohillsgolf at 12:06 am on July 4, 2008 quit bieng too mean -- Posted by ilovethatbiotch at 12:07 am on July 4, 2008 being nice is good. if she dumps a nice guy then it is her loss. i am a bitch so my bf can be mean. its kinda how we have always worked as a couple though -- Posted by carnage44 at 12:07 am on July 4, 2008 Just act like yourself, goodness. -- Posted by californication at 12:07 am on July 4, 2008 Be yourself. -- Posted by truexblue at 12:08 am on July 4, 2008 Act like you. dont be mean. -- Posted by Rowanie at 12:08 am on July 4, 2008 That's a stupid idea. You're more likely to get dumped for being mean! Be nicer to her. -- Posted by Justinc08 at 12:08 am on July 4, 2008 Girls now days just want to accept assholes into their lives who make it a living hell when they could live a nice peaceful life with a nice guy. -- Posted by Ad libitum at 12:09 am on July 4, 2008 When you say mean, what is it you actually do to be that way? Also, try and balance both behaviours out. Be nice, but at the same time be firm. -- Posted by Cambria at 12:09 am on July 4, 2008 I've never dumped a guy for that. I don't think anyone really does. Don't go out of your way to be an ass. -- Posted by Steel Ebola at 12:16 am on July 4, 2008 Its happened to me too, hate it but there loss. Women say they want a nice guy and I'm proud to be one of the last few. WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?! -- Posted by brittanybubble at 12:24 am on July 4, 2008 I don't know any girls who have dumped guys for being too nice. I DO know girls though, who have dumped their boyfriend because they were being too mean. I would much rather have a too nice boyfriend than a mean one. -- Posted by californiaboy at 2:29 am on July 4, 2008 Reality check...keep being a bit of an ass. Why girls like it is beyond me, but I learned to do it a while ago and works. You can still be nice, but act a bit selfish once in a while and it hooks them in. Don't answer their calls, say no when they want to do things, etc. Girls say they like guys that will do anything for them, but they certainly do not. -- Posted by Hontoshimu at 4:33 am on July 4, 2008 thats silly dont be anything just have lots of sex and everyone leaves happy -- Posted by branflakes at 12:51 pm on July 4, 2008 keep being mean but be nice too have you ever heard of a girl dumping a guy because he was "too mean"?