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-- Posted by Skyler72 rawrr at 1:37 am on July 4, 2008

So... my best friend and me were texting eachother today, and he said his mom wanted to know if I wanted to go camping with them for the fourth. I asked him if he wanted me to come, and he told me all his family was gonna be there, and I know how that would be [no, I don't, but ok]. So I told him I guess not then... and he says I just saved you from a weekend of hell...

I don't know... I just feel like he didn't want me to come... I don't understand why. I am nice to his family, care about him a lot [I actually love him], and would do anything for him. Maybe I'm just worrying to worry... maybe he just didn't want me to meet the rest of his family. I don't know... what do you guys think? I kinda feel like I might have scared him off by telling him I love him a while back and he doesn't want to hang out with me anymore... but yeah, let me know what ya think. Thanks.


-- Posted by MANNy90 at 1:39 am on July 4, 2008

hes a DICK!


-- Posted by justscott at 1:39 am on July 4, 2008

ask him!  tell him all that.


-- Posted by Poker Shark at 1:41 am on July 4, 2008

When you said you love him did you mean like in love or friend-type love. You might have scared him off.


-- Posted by Duke at 1:41 am on July 4, 2008

Quote: from MANNy90 at 3:39 am on July 4, 2008


hes a DICK!

Why?


-- Posted by Skyler72 rawrr at 1:42 am on July 4, 2008

Quote: from Poker Shark at 1:41 am on July 4, 2008


When you said you love him did you mean like in love or friend-type love. You might have scared him off.
Like love, love... but we have hung out like twice inbetween now and then... I'm just not sure if I did scare him off or not...


-- Posted by Poker Shark at 1:52 am on July 4, 2008

Quote: from Skyler72 at 6:12 pm on July 4, 2008


Quote: from Poker Shark at 1:41 am on July 4, 2008

When you said you love him did you mean like in love or friend-type love. You might have scared him off.
Like love, love... but we have hung out like twice inbetween now and then... I'm just not sure if I did scare him off or not...


Having someone say that sometimes makes people feel a little scared for some reason at first. I guess you'll have to wait and see.


-- Posted by Avenue D at 8:53 am on July 4, 2008

I don't think it's like he doesn't love you or anything.  Maybe his family is dysfunctional and going out camping overnight would end up in a shitstorm and both your friend will have a horrible time.  "I just saved you from a weekend of hell," kind of indicates that I'm probably right.


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