-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:45 am on July 4, 2008 Me and my boyfriend of 14 months broke up like 2 months ago. I was fine. Since then i've had 2 relationships which have ended really quickly. I really miss my ex. Like really badly. Tiny things remind me of him, like a song, a tv programme, a film, a aplace, a piece of clothing, a picture or even some words. I can't stop thinking about him and how I still love him. The thing is I can't. Thinsg will never work out ever. Also, it's really fucking with my head. Oe minute i'll be happy and hyper and stuff, the next i'll be in tears. Sometimes not even for any reason. I dunno what to do. =[ -- Posted by Spiral at 11:48 am on July 4, 2008 You don't know things will never work out until you try. Ask him out again, see how things go, otherwise you'll live in regret, wondering what might have happened. -- Posted by Cyanide666 at 11:49 am on July 4, 2008 I know how you feel.  Same thing is happening to me, like, at this very moment.  We can have a pity party. -- Posted by Majo at 11:50 am on July 4, 2008 I can relate. I just figure I'm not totally over him yet so maybe that's what's up with you, you're not ready to really move on thus your other relationship failures. -- Posted by alastrxxna at 11:50 am on July 4, 2008 Just be patient with yourself, its really gonna take time. I'm really sorry. -- Posted by CentsofHumor at 11:54 am on July 4, 2008 Let me start by saying I find myself in a similar situation. The main difference I'm seeing is that you have had two relationships in the past two months RIGHT after getting out of a long relationship. What this says to me is that you were trying as hard as you could to get over this kid and didn't give it time. What you need to do is keep chugging along in your life and find things that make you happy. Forget about guys for a while and let the rest of your life continue as usual. It's been such a long time since you've lived your life without being in a relationship so it's hard to get back into the swing of things after it's over. This may be another reason that you jumped right back into two others. As I've said, however, you need to give yourself time to adapt to your new life. Eventually, some other guy will swing in, sweep you off your feet, and make you completely forget you ever even had an ex-boyfriend. If you want to talk more, PM me and I'll give you my whole story. I'm almost out of the hole your in but more details would be helpful in helping you out. -- Posted by shialover27 at 11:59 am on July 4, 2008 tlk 2 him -- Posted by mousiegurl27 at 12:03 pm on July 4, 2008 Well you obviously love him. So get him back :)